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Jul 012009
 

Last night I had a revelation.

Not only do I not mind kissing Veronica after cuming in her mouth, I actually like it.  And it’s not just with Veronica.  The last time we were with a certain couple, I came in the other woman’s mouth and wanted, damn near needed, to kiss her afterward.  The fact that there was a little drop of cum on the side of her mouth didn’t deter me at all.

I mean, I know what I taste like by now.  I’ll even go down on Veronica after cuming inside her pussy- I’m just not bothered at all by it, nor am I worried what others will think about my attitude.

But I am curious.  Guys, how do you feel about tasting your own cum?  Does it bother you, do you avoid it?  Are you indifferent and unperturbed by it?  Or are you like me and welcome it?  What about you, ladies, what is your view on a man’s attitude towards his own love juice?

As always, comments are welcome

[Last Friday was a friends birthday, so knowing her how we do, we got her a naughty card. "What's the difference between like, love, and show-off?  Spit, swallow and gargle"  LOL....]

Happy Hump Day!

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  • http://anothersuburbanmom.blogspot.com Another Suburban Mom

    I know that I appreciate your attitude!

  • http://aprilsrandomshowers.blogspot.com April

    I wish more men had your attitude. I’ve been with very few men who would kiss me after nutting in my mouth. My current man had a problem with kissing me after I sucked his dick sans cum in my mouth. I had to break him of that. I was like, “It’s not like sucking your own dick by proxy!” But I think it’s completely hot when a man doesn’t mind tasting his own juice. I know I don’t mind tasting myself at all. ;)

  • http://sexyrunners.blogspot.com IM @ Sexy Runners

    I have to admit that I have a mental block on this…and I don’t have very many blockages.

    Gives me more to think about. Thanks for sharing.

  • Barefoot Dreaming

    seriously – unless the lady is holding in her mouth until later (I dont know? for a snack) then there is very little left – right? so if the guy is not that into it that they literally stop and think about my mouth and what it might hold then they are not that into me.

    I do have to say my pet peeve is if they don’t ask if they can come in your mouth in the first place.

    • http://hubmanshangout.wordpress.com/ hubman38

      Sometimes I kiss her before she’s swallowed, sometimes there is some on her lips, other times there’s just the aftertaste. It’s all the same to me.

      And of course I always ask first, even with Veronica,who always says yes ;-)

  • Barbara

    In my case, semen causes dryness in the throat can not find it tasty, I used a trick to swalow without testing and please my playmates. My husband don´t care kissme after sucks his or another dick but is no his favorite. None of my lovers expressed feel comfortable testing their own milk.
    Barbara .-

  • NY Diva

    I find it annoying when they won’t kiss me after, even if there is no cum in my mouth. I mean, I will kiss them after they’ve gone down on me so let’s not be so uptight. :-) It seems silly to be like, “ewww gross no!” after everything else we’ve done together!

  • spin

    I love it! I love to swallow.
    I have only had ONE (1) yes just guy in my life who kissed me after I swallowed.
    Never had a guy go down on me after cumming in me.

  • http://paigesblogofnothing.blogspot.com/ Just Me…

    My take – If you won’t kiss me after I’ve gone down on you, you can just forget about me going back down in the future.. :) :) :)

  • Mike

    I don’t have a problem with it at all. In fact when I make out with my wife after she’s sucked my cock, the taste there is exciting…just adds to the fun.

  • http://swingers-diaries.blogsot.com southern swinger

    This is a comment on your post about married swingers swinging with couples married but not to each other. There were two couples we knew who came to a swing club we attended and they were fun people to be with. The fact that they were cheating did not bother us. However, we encountered two problems meeting couples outside of the swing club. One has been addressed-scheduling. It was so difficult to schedule a meeting we generally gave up. The second problem is more serious and that is when one of the partners is discovered and the married swinging couple gets caught up in the middle. This did not happen to us but we came close but it did happen to friends and things got troublesome

    I don’t understand guys who will not kiss a partner after cuming in her mouth. They must think there is something wrong with their cum. I not only do it I look forward to it.

  • 13messages

    I’ve never knowingly tasted myself, but I have no problem with it at all. It sure as heck wouldn’t get in the way of a nice kiss from my wife.

  • http://www.wherewegetoff.blogspot.com Dharma

    I read this post to Greg and his response was, “If you’re so worried about possibly getting your own cum in your mouth by kissing your wife/girlfriend/partner after she has given you head or won’t go down on your woman after you’ve cum inside of her, then you are thinking about way too much other stuff during sex than you should be.”

    It must have been my college years when I last encountered a guy who was repulsed by the idea of kissing me after oral sex. Funny, isn’t it, how guys have no problem going down on a woman and kissing her afterwards, but the reverse squicks them out somehow.

    I personally think it is incredible sexy and self-assured and an indication of a person’s level of comfort with their own body, for a man or a woman to be okay with, even enticed or excited by, tasting their own fluids. I have sucked Greg’s dick after he has been inside of me and I’ve cum all over him. I’ve kissed him after he’s gone down on me. I’ve tasted myself on my own fingers. He’s done the same…licked me clean after cumming inside of me, kissed me after I’ve swallowed when he’s finished in my mouth. I don’t think we’ve ever kissed while I still had semen in my mouth, but that’s mostly because if I don’t swallow quickly, I get a little nauseous from the texture.

    I like it…he likes it. I like it when the taste of either of us lingers in our mouths. He does, too. Guess it works out all the way around.

  • http://asecretfreak.blogspot.com Angel

    I refuse to waste a drop! It is INCREDIBLY sexy to me, to have my man passionately kiss me, after cumming in my mouth.. But, to be fair.. rarely would you ever,find that a drop had been left..

    It is all just part of sex..

  • http://msscarlettletter.blogspot.com/ Ms Scarlett

    I have a little story from the other side of that equation. After driving me completely, wonderfully insane with his mouth for the very first time (lo, these many moons ago…), he rose and started to turn away to wipe off his mouth. I stopped him, asking what he was doing, while pulling him back toward me.

    Through much prodding I finally got him to tell me that his wife wouldn’t let him near her with her own juices on his face – had, in fact, gone so far as to make him stop altogether and wash his face and rinse his mouth. WTF??

    My answer was to sit him down on my bed and perch on his lap while I very slowly and thoroughly kissed his face clean, showing him beyond any doubt that I love to taste myself on his skin. You should have seen his face the first time I licked his cock after he’d been inside me. Pure heaven – for both of us.

    Last night he kissed me after cumming in my mouth and grinned so widely at me after that I had to laugh. I love, love, love giving him that freedom, and I love it even more when he takes full advantage of it!

    Great topic Hubman!

  • http://thesilentmale.blogspot.com/ silentmale

    I completely respect a woman who will go down on me and let me cum in her mouth. For the longest time though, I couldn’t get into the idea of tasting my own cum. Too many homophobic thoughts, or fears, or whatever the fuck it was.
    So I have been teaching myself to accept the taste of my own cum. I haven’t had a real opportunity to share this with a partner yet (just some little issues in the way), but I intend that the next woman who lets me cum in her mouth will get kissed, and if I am not all worn out, I want to include going down on her after having fucked her silly.

  • http://www.sexchocolateandredlipstick.blogspot.com Amy

    More men should definitely be like you! I hate when men are squeamish about their own cum. It’s their own for god sakes! And if I’m going to go down on someone the least they can do is kiss me afterwards!

  • Petal

    Ah, interesting topic! I have found most guys are more than willing to kiss me after going down on me but avoid kissing me after I have gone down on them, no matter if they have cum or not…..which makes me wonder why?

  • http://confessionsfrommyopenmarriage.blogspot.com/ sexie sadie

    One time Trent (the asshole) came in my mouth and I pretended to swallow it but I didn’t. Instead I kissed him and when he opened his mouth I spit the cum I had been savoring into his unassuming mouth. HE was royally disgusted but I, of course, was quite pleased with myself :)

    I like cum. Cumming… or going. hehe

    xo~Sadie

  • http://britnidanielle.blogspot.com Britni (VadgeWig)

    If a guy expects me to go down on him after we’ve fucked or kiss him after he goes down on me or to suck my juices off his fingers, he damn well better AT LEAST kiss me after I swallow his load.

    It’s a respect thing to me, and guys that have hang ups about it probably have hang ups about other sexual stuff, too.

  • Coquitten

    I’ve never met a man who seemed unnerved by cum/kissing me after he cums in my mouth. No one has specifically sought it out though.

    I LOVE to taste me on a man though. To take his cock in my mouth after it has been in my pussy, or to kiss him after he’s gone down on me, or (my favorite way) to grab his fingers after he’s fingerfucked me and lick them clean. I like that one best because, if I haven’t given him head yet, I know it puts it into his mind…!

  • MG

    I’m willing, but my wife is definitely NOT! lol. She has an aversion to cum for some reason. Actually, I have licked her afterwards once before without her protesting. We were having sex and I was pretty excited and finished before she did. I was determined that she was gonna cum, so I just went down there and went to town. I’m thinkin she must have been pretty close, so was willing to go with it so she could orgasm. Any other time I’ve tried, she usually protests or outright says no. I just recently tried to get a kiss after a bj and she turned her head away. And tasting herself on me? Thats a no for sure, except for once or twice (literally) before when she got a wild hair. Its too bad because I’m very interested in trying it more often!

  • Thalia

    My feeling on this is how can you expect me to suck your cock and let you come in me if you are going to get all squeemish about your own bodily fluids? I mean, for real. Grow up. If you have some mental hang up then grow up and try it, you might like it! Now go eat your peas.

  • http://dangerousliaisons-aurore.blogspot.com/ Aurore

    Oddly, I’ve never run into a man who wouldn’t kiss me after I have gone down on them. Instinctively, the first thing I want after a man cums in my mouth is to kiss them; I also feel the same way after they’ve gone down on me…I love tasting myself on my partner.

    If someone refused or was weirded out about it, they would either have to change their attitude or I don’t think they’d be invited back!

  • http://tiwiwtw.wordpress.com rage

    Isn’t that called snowballing?

  • piecesofjade

    I didn’t know there was anything odd about it–I love to follow up a good blowjob by sliding up his body to kiss him. Just seems right somehow. None of them have ever complained or seemed perturbed by it. Maybe I’ll take a poll and see what my guys think!

    Jade

  • Dewey

    I haven’t really thought about it. I will the next time I have the opportunity. I don’t know what other men feel about it, or think about it, but for some reason I gathered that maybe guys were grossed out by it, or that it was something men just didn’t do. I appreciate your openness about it and let’s keep the dialogue open. :)

  • slking

    i love it when she kisses me after and she aways save some for me to push in to my mouth. and i love eatting her out after i or even better someone has cum in her. but may fav. is to have a guy or to cum on her tits and i lick it off and kiss her.

   

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