- posted on 04/09/2010 13:07
You ever look forward to something, only to be disappointed in the experience once it finally happens?
I can recall a TMI Tuesday question, once upon a time, about over-rated sex positions. I wrote about the 69 position and if I remember correctly, so did a number of other bloggers. Don’t get me wrong, I love to eat pussy and of course I love a good or even a bad blowjob. But both at the same time? No thanks, I prefer to focus on one or the other.
Add another sex act to the over-rated list.
Double penetration.
Click to really see the expression on her face!
Last summer, while playing with another couple, Veronica had her first and so far only experience with double penetration. It was late, we were tired, none of us really had any experience with DP, we couldn’t figure out the right position blah blah blah. Yeah sure I got into Veronica’s ass while she rode the other guy, but I swear I don’t think it lasted more than a minute before we grew a little frustrated and gave up. Veronica liked it enough to want to try again someday, though we haven’t had the opportunity yet.
Not too long ago, I had the chance to help another couple fulfill their DP fantasy and again, the same issues arose. Between experimenting with positions, dealing with condoms, both guys trying to find a rhythm AND to stay inside her at the same time, let me tell you, it’s not as easy as they make it look in porn!!
Yeah, I know, that shouldn’t be a surprise- they’re professional fuckers, I’m just an amateur who likes to practice a lot. But still…
It didn’t even bother me, feeling another man’s cock practically touching mine, separated by mere millimeters of flesh. And while he and I met for the first time earlier that day, she and I had good sexual chemistry since the first time we met several months earlier, so that wasn’t an issue either.
If we get the chance, will I deny Veronica the opportunity to experience a DP again? Of course not.
Will I be seeking out the opportunity? I doubt it.
But you know what I think would be totally hot? If Veronica and I can find a woman with a strap-on to join us! Veronica can ride the fake cock, I can fuck her ass, and there is no concerns about maintaining erections or dealing with condoms.
Ladies, any recommendations for a good strap-on?
Or volunteers? 
I totally agree with you about 69. It’s a total distraction, and not pleasurable for me.
DP has never appealed to me in anyway. I’m not exactly sure why. It just doesn’t.
As far as harnesses, the Joque SpareParts harness is pretty fucking cool. It’s totally comfortable, and very adjustable without the bulk some other harnesses have. I love it.
As far as volunteers . . . I’m skilled with a strap-on, but I have never used one on a woman. I can’t imagine it’s much different than fucking a guy though.
My corset strap on works quite well
Though I’ve never tried it on a girl…
I must say.
We have reasonably good luck with the Vac-u-lock system by Doc Johnson. It is reasonably inexpensive which is good if this not something that you would use often.
I used to think the same thing about the 69 position but with my latest bf, I actually love it. I don’t know… it used to be a concentration thing for me but now, I find I’m able to orgasm faster with him in my mouth.
Regarding DP? Always wanted to try it but yeah, a girl with a strap on might be the best way to go. I like that idea.
Overrated or not. I still want to try this position.
We’ve tried with Ruf and a dildo and Ruf and a vibrator but I’m so tiny that, when Ruf starts thrusting, unless I hold the other item in, we lose it. I’m just not sure there would be room to accommodate two moving parts comfortably for anyone.
Here’s my attempt with a strap on
Let’s just say that I was a lot more appreciative about how you guys work out the angles after I lost my own erection through incorrect placement when thrusting
Vanilla Kinks- we’ll have to check that strap-on out, thanks for the suggestion! So are you volunteering?
Frances- What’s a corset strap-on?
John and Ann- I’ve heard of the Doc Johnson, I’ll check that one out as well!
T- Bravo for your boyfriend! Maybe I should send Veronica your way once she gets on
Steel Horseman- I can’t blame you! Like I said, I may think it’s over-rated, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll say no if the opportunity presents itself again!
Joanna- I’ll make sure to check out your post, thanks for the link!
Hum good to know becuase I really thought it would be all that and more. Good to keep in mind and not be disappointed.
you know whats funny is that although it is something that has always intrigued me, i have always thought the same thing. how physically awkward could this be. would i stop it from happening because of that? i doubt it.
and i havent got a strap on but i would buy one to volunteer
Oh Hubman, I HATE 69. I can’t concentrate nor enjoy what I am receiving and give you/him the best BJ I can. One at a time!!! Preferably him first cuz he isn’t going to blow his load before I can get mine…lol Unfortunately that has happened before, that only took me once to figure out with a selfish lover!!!
I would like to try DP but not with two guys. I want one real and one dildo….. I just want to see if it is all it is cracked up to be.
A strap-on: Well that has presented with issues of getting it to stay in place on me…I haven’t mastered that technique yet. But I have one all the same.
I’ve tried a DP with two guys before and, like you said, it was extremely awkward. I LOVED the feeling of it, but we had to keep switching positions in order to find one that worked, which we never did. I would think trying a DP with a strap on would present the same positioning problems, though I’m more than willing to try that out!
I’ve done DP with a dildo/butt plug/vibrator and my partner, though, which is ALWAYS amazing.
Too bad you weren’t in Canada
I would so volunteer!
I find the 69 challenging because of the height difference between me and Hubman. With a 10″ height difference, if I am at the right angle for eating, I can’t reach much of his cock.
Thanks for all the strap on suggestions.
I’m not a fan of 69 either. Actually, the first time I ever did it, I burst out laughing at how ridiculous I felt and how awkwardly distracting it was. I think I hurt the guys feeling (he got over it btw)
I mean, its not the most awful thing, but not my first choice.
Strap ons – no experience with that, but I’m not ruling it out for future play! That reminds me that I have an interesting formspring question about strap ons that I need to answer.
Vanilla Kinks has got it right–that harness is ridiculously comfortable and gets the job done. Mine, unfortunately, hasn’t seen any action in quite some time…
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Too funny! Not as easy as it looks in the movies!! I have had it work before, and very well at least once, but I must have been younger and thinner.
In my experience, DP is tricky and requires an EXPERIENCED threesome. I don’t mean just that all three are experienced lovers, but that all three of you have played around well enough to know each other’s rhythms and style, including the other guys understanding each other a bit. I used to share a girlfriend regularly with her other guy, and we were able to pull this off sometimes, always with me in her ass and him underneath.