Owing to the distance between Veronica and I, I’m basically a geographical bachelor, living the life of a single man. No spouse to deal with (and I don’t mean that negatively), no kids to help with, and how could I forget, no sex life.
However, it doesn’t have to be that way. I’ve encouraged Veronica to seek out a partner if she so desires, whether it’s someone she’s played with before or not. Maybe she’ll go to a swingers party by herself while I’m gone. I know she’s comfortable enough with Rob and Bonnie to attend one of their parties as a unicorn. Can you imagine the attention she’d get? She’d have to beat the men (and maybe some of the women!) off with a stick!
As for me, Veronica is continuing to give me the freedom to find a friend with benefits here in San Antonio. We were chatting on Sunday and she suggested that I should create a profile on Ashley Madison. Good idea baby!
I didn’t go with AM, but I do have a profile somewhere on a dating site. I’m quite up front with my situation and what I’m looking for, even going so far as suggesting how someone could find this blog, to see for themselves that I’m not actually a cheating spouse and that I really am in an open marriage.
We’ll see how it goes, though I think I need to refine the profile first. Time to re-read some of Riff Dog’s posts….
I’ll let you know if anything develops 
