Honesty DOES Work!

Tagged with: Adult Friend Finder, Open Marriage, Swinging

Aug 292010

Recently I was musing that perhaps being totally honest with my AFF profile may not have been the best tactic when it came to finding a FWB while I’m here in San Antonio. You have to admit, coming across a profile that basically says “no really, my wife knows and approves of my finding a lover while I’m gone!” is not very believable for most people. Sounds like some line of BS, right?

Except I’m an extremely lucky man, as any long-time readers would know, and it’s the truth!

Earlier this week I received an e-mail from a woman who liked my profile and contacted me. To make a long story short, we exchanged a few pictures (face and fully-clothed body pictures only), chatted online some, and decided that we would like to meet in person.

During the course of our date on Friday, we were comparing notes on our relative success with AFF and I teased her that she cost me another months membership, that I was all set to give up and delete my profile until I saw her message. There’s less than 3 weeks until I hit the road for home and really, I was perfectly happy with giving up. I told her that since she contacted me, I guess I should keep my membership going and see what happens.

Best decision I made all week!

Sorry, got off track there…

I asked her, what was it about my profile that lead you to contact me? As anyone who has been on a sex/dating site can attest, there are many more men than woman, so why me?

My honesty! She thought my profile was sincere and genuine and since she and her ex had a similar arrangement, she knew from her own experience how it can work.

We had a very nice time together.

I got home quite late.

I’m pretty sure I’ll be seeing her again before I leave.

And most of all, I’m happy that I was true to who I am and didn’t mislead someone in order to get laid.

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http://tonightmakemeyours.blogspot.com Kitten

I’m glad as well. Yay for honesty!

And double yay for Veronica being an amazing and giving wife to allow you to find this woman. =]
http://anothersuburbanmom.blogspot.com Another Suburban Mom

I am glad the whole honesty thing worked out. Its just too bad that there are too many lying jerks out there who ruin it for the honest.
Jade James

Agreed…when I go to the site for some NSA activity, I only connect with those profiles that have substantial, seemingly honest content. I’ve been very fortunate to have had success so I wish continued enjoyment!
http://dangerousliaisons-aurore.blogspot.com/ Aurore

I’m so glad that it worked out for you this time and it seems like you had a good time
http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com Topaz

As a non-user of these sites, I may be totally misinterpreting, but from your post, I take it that she liked your honesty because she could relate due to her own experience. Something few users could claim (only from what I understand from reading fellow bloggers who do use those sites). But regardless, it paid off for you, you had a great time, and that’s what counts!
http://rtws.blogspot.com Emmy

Honesty always works. No one wants the fun ruined by the lack of it.
Glad you found someone who gets that!
http://beingbella2.blogspot.com/ Bella

That’s awesome that your honestly enabled you to meet this woman when you otherwise wouldn’t have if you’d been less forthcoming. Very cool that you’ll be seeing her again as well!
http://www.dustbunnyinthewind.com nitebyrd

I’m really happy to know that honesty worked well for you. It’s nice you’ll be seeing her again!
http://blue-eyedvixen.com/ Vixen

I still believe being honest is the way to go. I’m glad it paid off for you!