Loss

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Oct 262010
 

She was a fantastic partner for Veronica and I.
Tall, shapely, just a fantastic figure
Determined to make Veronica come before she ever did
Enthusiastic about giving and receiving with both of us
Knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say so, but also takes direction well
Likes nothing more than to have me come in her mouth
Well, unless she’s insisting that I fuck her ass!
Happily helped Veronica with her first strap-on sex experience
All that she asked was that we videotape our fun for her to share with her Dom

I was browsing the swingers website on night after I returned from Texas and looked for her profile.  She was very generous about posting pics and videos of her adventures and I was curious what she was up to while I was gone.  Her profile was gone though, so I e-mailed her, asking if she was doing alright.  She assured us that she was doing fine and quickly asked when we might be free to get together again.

I mention this to Veronica and ask if she wants to see her again.

She said no.

On 2 other occasions I simply asked “Are you sure?” and she said yes each time, no more play with our unicorn friend.

Veronica did explain to me why she wasn’t interested in playing with her again, the particulars of which aren’t important here.

I didn’t argue or try to change her mind, as much as I loved playing with our friend.  We’ve always maintained a rule that either of us reserves the right to end a relationship, without argument or objection from the other.  This was the first time that it’s happened, and I was happy to oblige her.

I love playing with our various friends.

I love Veronica more, and want nothing more than to keep her happy, it’s as simple as that.

Now we just need to find a new unicorn to join us :-)

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  • http://suburbanslut.wordpress.com ~m

    I can sort of relate to the loss. I still lust after the 1st woman I was part of a threesome with. Great times, but my gentleman friend refused to give me her contact info. I still look out there in hopes I may one day find ‘Sandy’ again.

    So few gents like you out there (at least in my experience) respecting your partner’s decision. I’m fortunate that CD respects me the same way. That’s not always been the case w/ former lovers and lead to a lot of discord. Explains why we’re no longer together – one of several reasons.

    Good luck on the search – still looking myself. It’s not easy.

  • http://sexyrunners.blogspot.com IM @ Sexy Runners

    Interesting loss. But it is better than losing Veronica.

    Unicorns with a strap-on…..now that’s a visual.

  • http://topaz-gemology.blogspot.com Topaz

    Wow, see, this is why I absolutely admire you both and learn so much from your marriage. It all works so well because you’ve established those ground rules early on. I can’t say I’m sorry because you all had great experiences, and now it’s time to move on to another mutually fulfilling path. So I only both wish you well on your search :-)

  • Mike

    Hmmm…probably has something to do with her being in HR and the whole videotape thing. That would make me hesitate…Once put on video these days, it lives on forever…

  • John & Ann

    Have followed your blog for a while, it strikes me that there are really two dimensions to this issue:

    1. You and Veronica have a rule that either of you can say no. We would agree this makes sense and have a similar rule.

    2. I think also that you take pleasure from her enjoyment of these sexual experiences with others and any experience which did not bring her pleasure would be less appealing for that reason along–even if she said okay.

   

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