Apropos of Nothing

Tagged with: brain dump, Family, Katie, SLS, Thanksgiving

Nov 212011

Monday morning, it’s brain dump time!

Last night I logged onto our SLS account and saw that we had a new e-mail. Sounded promising, the couple are swingers and also play separately, profile reads well, they had already exchanged a few messages with Veronica. Good, right? Then I saw their profile pics and winced. Veronica swears that the pics weren’t there when she first checked out their profile.

I’m leaving it to her to back off from them after several encouraging messages!

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It’s just me and Darling Boy for the next 3 days. This evening Veronica and Princess Persistent are flying to New York for some extra family time before Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving Day DB and I will drive down and join them and we’ll all return together sometime Friday.

We’ll be having Thanksgiving dinner at Veronica’s step-sisters place. The woman is NOT known for her cooking, Veronica insists that she maintains she size 2 figure with a diet of cheetos and diet soda. Good thing my mother-in-law will be there and will likely take over in the kitchen.

Speaking of moms and Turkey Day, my mother will also be on Long Island, with my sister and her in-laws. Last year Veronica and I stayed home, which would have been our preference again this year. But no, my mom had to insist that we come to Long Island. Of course, there wasn’t an invitation to my brother-in-laws families place, so we’re not actually spending the holiday with her.

Gotta love family….

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Thanks to certain online friends, I’ve been thinking a lot about double penetration lately. I’ve participated several times, with Veronica and another guy as part of a 4some swap, with Veronica and another woman & a strap-on, and when I joined another couple for a MFM 3some.

I love seeing a woman enjoy 2 cocks at once, better if one of those cocks is mine, it’s been too long, over a year and a half.

Any ladies with a generously sized strap-on want to visit and help me double-stuff Veronica?

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Yesterday I got out for a 15 mile bike ride, that makes 6 rides and almost 100 cumulative miles for the month, not bad for November! Still, I’m 100′s of miles short of last years total mileage.

Even if it means risking hypothermia, I WILL get out for one last ride, of at least 19 miles, so that I can reach an arbitrary and otherwise meaningless goal. Because I’m dumb like that…

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It’s been 2 days and I’m already second-guessing whether I like having comments turned off.

Comments are turned back on for this post. We’ll see about future posts.

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Sometimes I miss Katie.

Correction, sometimes I miss *fucking* Katie, I could do without her emotional neediness.

With Veronica gone for the next 3 nights, it would have been good to have Katie around for a bootie call. I wonder how she’d react if I texted her today and invited her over?

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Time to get my ass out of bed and get a move on.

Have a great Monday!

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http://www.singedwingangelspad.com Angel

I have often though of DP as well and have never participated in it, but would like to I think. I think anyway. Why on earth would you turn comments off hun?? I hope you all have a Happy and filled with love Thanksgiving and safe trips for all of you..
John & Ann

Having had several DP experiences, I would have to say that is one of those activities that looks much easier in adult films that in practice. Not impossible, certainly worth the effort, but not exactly easier.

Enjoy your days along with DB and the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday!
http://www.lustsofajezebel.com Jezzy

I hate it when things go a little sideways on SLS :\ good luck with that…

DP… something I have yet to experience. I’m glad you have the comments turned back on. I hope you guys have a wonderful holiday filled with food and family love (even when the family is… well… you know, so much… ugh lol)

On the topic of Katie, I bet if you texted her, she would come to you…. but then you have to figure out how to separate yourself from her again… is the booty worth it?

xoxo
http://ellidragon.mollysdailykiss.com KaziGrrl

I like brain dumps

Have entertained fantasies of DP but as the recipient not the stuffer. If we ever found a compatible female Sir and I might go that route!

Happy Turkey Day and safe travels!! we’ll be in NY as well (closer to NYC), and I’m very happy not to be driving!
Family situation… well, family is family, do gotta love ‘em…

~Kazi xxx
http://uponthesunnyside.tumblr.com Penelope

re: commenting. I think we’re all a little curious about what people might say. It’s the curiosity that makes us keep them open, if nothing else.
http://mysemicharmedlife.com Simone

DP is still a “curious about” fantasy for me. It sounds nice, in theory, but I’m not sure if it’ll work with me.

If you feel it’s worth it, meet your goal. If you get sick, there’s always health insurance.

As for Katie, there’s no such thing as emotion insurance. If you’re not sure she won’t latch back onto you when you invite her over, then I don’t recommend doing so. Neither of you deserve the stress from a mind fuck.

Thanks for leaving comments open for this entry. Although, I could always comment via email/Twitter. Your point about disabling comments is pretty sound. There are alternatives.
btrlatethanneve

I still feel like DP is above my pay grade. lol. Maybe one day…..
http://aprilsrandomshowers.blogspot.com April

My ex and I tried dp once with him in my ass and a dildo in my vajayjay. It was a little awkward and I’ll say we never really got it all working smoothly and it left much to be desired. Maybe this is why my #1 thing to watch when looking at porn is dp scenes. I’ve never done it with 2 men and I’ve fantasized about it many times, though I don’t know that I’d actually want it to happen. Why? I can’t exactly say.
http://www.whatsinaname305.blogspot.com Mr. No Name

I think comments are tied to subject – talk about DP and get a hundred comments In all seriousness, I think you should leave comments turned on. Reading your posts makes me realize SM and I are not alone in this adventure.

I had the same issue with obsessively checking SLD/SDC e-mails (vice comments). Last month I was pissed that no one seemd to be showing us love, this weekend, we had too many at once and I was spending hours reading/replying/chatting when I should have been with the family watching a shitty Disney Movie. Feast or famine!

As for the booty call, my reccommendation is don’t do it. The sex would be great, I am sure, but letting a needy partner back into your life just feeds the fire of their mental instability.

TTFN
Mr. No Name
Victoria

I agree with the others re: the booty call. While the sex might be great, if you know she’ll get clingy again best not do it.

Of course, if I lived closer….

As for DP, I’ve never tried it, but then I’m still getting used to backdoor lovin’ as it is….baby steps.
http://www.dangerouslilly.com Dangerous Lilly

re: Katie….my only response to that is to smack you upside the head. And to clarify I’m talking about the one you should be doing your thinking with, the one *above* your shoulders
http://missystarrk.blogspot.com/ missystark

katie…oy don’t do it…thanksgiving in ny…yeah i’ll be there on friday…double penetration…mmmmm…waiting for my harness/briefs they are backordered …kisses
http://hubmanshangout.com Hubman

Angel- Look at the New Comment Policy post, that explains what I saw thinking. As far as DP, you never know until you try it!

John and Ann- that way my thought too after trying DP, not as easy as they make it look in porn!

Jezzy- worst of all, after I said something to Veronica she replied to them anyway! As far as I’m concerned, now it’s up to her to cut them off! As far as Katie, I never actually had any intention of contacting her, just thinking out loud, so to speak.

Kazi- seems as if we’re heading to the same area, but unfortunately I’ll be the one driving. I HATE driving thru NYC during a holiday weekend!

Penelope- good point, hadn’t occurred to me that others might be interested in seeing what those who comment have to say. Thanks for pointing that out!

Simone- I wasn’t serious about contacting Katie, just sharing some thoughts. As far as DP, you never know until you try!
http://sexyrunners.blogspot.com IM @ Sexy Runners

BC and I may be in the same boat with an SLS couple. The 38 year old guy looks 10 years older in his picture. Oh boy.

We have Wednesday with my side of the family and Thursday with BC’s side. It’s nice to get together but we are oh so happy when it’s over.

I could help with that DP action. BC would love the two of us on her as well.

Hooray for November bike rides. I put in some good mileage this past Saturday despite the windy conditions.

Forget Katie. Do you really need the extra drama?

Have a great Thanksgiving.
http://hubmanshangout.com Hubman

Better Late Than Never- for some reason that phrase makes me chuckle. Anyway, I think you should try it someday!

April- In my experience, it’s never been as good as it looks in porn, which is why like you I enjoy watching DP porn. V and I have done what you described many times, for her that’s just about as good.

Mr No Name- funny how that works, isn’t it? And true, it does seem to be feast or famine sometimes, just the way it goes. When it’s busy, it there’s a couple we’re really interested in we try a creative delay and hope they’re still around when we have more time. With Katie, I wasn’t serious about contacting her, just fantasizing about fucking her again

Victoria- If you lived closer, what?

Dangerous Lilly- I wasn’t really serious about contacting Katie, just fantasizing about having my way with her again. Contacting her again is fraught with peril!

Missy- Harness/briefs? Please, tell me about this! Sounds like you might be experienced with DP, am I correct?
OnlyMe

DP fascinates me to watch… It looks like it would feel so good! I have no desire to actually do it tho. I’m fairly sure I couldn’t handle it.

I lay off all the websites and then start to feel bored & usually hit them all at once… Then spend the next 2 weeks over whelmed and having to shut people down. Oops! Never fails..

I am finding it quite disappointing when my initial idea of how someone will look is completely wrong. I know some people use fakes pics, especially on twitter, but why use something that is not even close to how you really appear? That annoys me.
http://theworldbegins.blogspot.com/ France

When I read your post about turning comments off, I was stunned as I had been toying with the idea of doing the same thing!! I’m still on the fence about it. As for HNT, I want to be able to post my pics on my blog whenever I feel like it, without having a theme or a dedicated day for it. I did it for a while, but I stopped labeling them HNT simply because I wasn’t feeling part of that community, I had no time to visit everyone who participated and I ended up feeling bad for receiving more comments than I was leaving.

Love your to-do list.
https://notaperfectlife.wordpress.com/ Sophia

Well I enjoyed reading the comments everyone left and you replies.
As for DP…