Apropos of Nothing

Tagged with: brain dump, D700, Open Marriage, Photography, Swinging

Mar 062012

Time to empty my head of random thoughts bouncing around…

You would think that if we met a couple and fucked them not once but twice, they would recognize us, right?

You would be wrong.

Veronica and I have profiles on 2 different swingers sites. While we have different user names, it’s still us- many of the same pictures are used on both profiles and the text is damn-near identical. I really couldn’t do much except shake my head at the message we got the other day from Jack and Carla- we had met them thru Swappernet, this message was on Swinglifestyle.

“Hey there, couldn’t resist contacting you guys, we really like your profile and hope to hear back from you”

It’s only been 5 months, have they forgotten about fucking us already? Geez, I guess we didn’t make much of an impression…

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Here’s a scary game – is the quote from Rick Santorum or The Grand Ayatollah of Iran?

It’s surprisingly, and frighteningly, difficult.

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Are you a slut? A handy inter-active flowchart from Mother Jones

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Our beagle isn’t half as entertaining as this pup!

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Veronica and I are seriously thinking about taking a break from swinging for a while. I brought up the idea the other day, I’ve grown frustrated with trying to find couples. When we stopped to think about the last time we swapped with a couple and afterwards we both thought “wow, I can’t wait to see them again”. It’s been a year, there was one couple last August who were fun, but they turned out to be better at creating drama.

I wouldn’t be surprised if we delete both of our profiles soon and just fresh once we’re settled in Maryland later this year.

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The bloody bar photo from Monday? That wasn’t me, it was from someone else, but thanks for the concern!

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Photography stuff….

Motivation for my Project 365 comes and goes. I’m blaming winter, it just feels like there aren’t as many opportunities and now that I’m into year 3, I’ve taken enough photos inside my home, thankyouverymuch.

Speaking of which, this year should be a Project 366. Oops

Anyone care to help me figure out how to set up a sub-domain? I’ve been thinking about creating one for all of my photography, but I don’t have a clue where to start. I did some Googling and frankly I couldn’t understand half of what people were talking about.

I should write a post about my 2 weeks with a rented Nikon D700.

My participation in Wanton Wednesday and Sinful Sunday is sporadic. Some days I wonder what I’m doing and if people really want to see more of my naked_______.

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A happy thought to finish off this post-

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Tat

Some people just don’t pay attention.
According to the flow chart yes I am a slut
So glad that blood wasn’t yours
I think you guys should do what’s best for you.
I might be able to help with the sub domain set up
And I do enjoy seeing pics if your naked _______
Mike

I feel your frustration with the constant couples search. Looking for mutually attractive couples can be a draining experience, especially when you have “exhausted’ all the local possibilities in one way or another. Back in our swinging days when a new couple showed up online, it was like all the rest of us smelled fresh blood and pounced! LOL, especially if they were even moderately attractive. So we would take periodic breaks for these reasons.

Good luck and I’m sure you will do what’s best for you.
Nunuv Yobusiness

Hubman,

SM and I gave up on the website game for now. I understand what you mean about the couple searching. You invest so much time on the e-mails, talking meeting, etc all of that build up for a sexual encounter that can often be described as “ummm…kinda…OK”. We moved on to clubs. We will arrange to meet a couple there or just go and see what happens. We find it much more erotic and spontaneous. The down side is that most encounters end up as Soft Swap, but they can still be incredibly hot.

We are on a break from swinging as well due to vanilla commitments. We blanked out our profiles on the 2 sites we use and will put them back up with new pics once we are ready to …uhhhhh….commit to swinging again. It wil be interesting to see if we are seen as returning swingers or fresh meat.

TTFN
Mr. No Name
Emily

I can only speak for myself (although I’m guessing many others feel the same way) but yes, I’m always happy to see more of your naked ______.
Emily

I can only speak for myself (although I’m guessing many others feel the same way) but yes, I’m always happy to see more of your naked ______.
http://twitter.com/xtremeparnthood Sunday Stilwell

I rather like your random thoughts posts.
Thereisnojen

I know many of us like the pics.. naked or otherwise (I prefer naked . I can’t believe anyone would forget you two.. I think finding couples that are a good fit was exhausting (never actually succeeded)! Hope you had a great day!