A Tale of Two Swaps

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Jan 192012
 

[Veronica suggested "A Tale of Two Fucks" for a title, I overruled her. Like I'm that crude ;-) ]

Three plus years into our swinging adventures, of course I know that chemistry is equal important, if not more so, as physical attraction. I suppose I shouldn’t have been surprised when in one weekend that importance is so clearly illustrated for me.

Tammy, object of my fantasies for quite some time. Before we even contacted them, I’d browse their profile pics and think about getting my hands on her. Tall, oh-so pretty, great figure, she’s a delight to look at from head to toe.

Veronica and I met Tammy and Chuck at a bar close to their place.  We grabbed a table, ordered a round of drinks and started to get to know each other. As it turns out we have a number of mutual friends in the lifestyle, not necessarily people we fucked but at least know from parties.  After an hour or so, a loud and not-very-good blues band started playing, which really put a damper on the conversation. We were all enjoying ourselves, so they invited us back to their house.

Looking back, I suppose I should have seen it coming. I enjoyed Tammy’s company, she was every bit as attractive in person, but there just wasn’t a spark of desire there. I certainly enjoyed all that we did together, plus watching her and Veronica play with each, watching Veronica fuck and get fucked by Chuck and for the first time ever seeing Veronica take another man’s load in her mouth.

At the end of the night, it was certainly a good night, but not the great night I was hoping for.

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24 hours later and we’re out again, heading to Lisa and Ed’s house. They had contacted us, my first impression was that she was attractive, nice figure, but not Tammy-hot. I’m an optimist though, so I headed out with a ‘let’s have fun and see what happens” attitude.

They’ve got a great finished basement, bar area, couches and a pool table. We spend quite a bit of time chatting, drinking, and shooting pool. And flirting, Tammy was quite the flirt, casting glances my way, randomly grabbing me, sneaking a kiss now and then. It was fun and most definitely arousing.

Pool becomes strip pool, which leads to more flirting, touching, and arousal. Off to the hot tub we all go, more touching, the girls really get into each other (no pun intended!), then back into the house to continue to fun.

The girls continue, Ed and I join in as we see fit, sometimes watching, sometimes playing.  I seem to remember all 4 of us connected in some fashion, but honestly I can’t recall the exact details!

Eventually I reach the point where my orgasm is imminent, Lisa encourages me to pull out and come on her, which of course I’m more than happy to do. She presented herself to Veronica, who eagerly uses her mouth to clean up the mess I made.

Gotta love when there’s attraction AND chemistry!!

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Veronica: I had a very good time with both couples.

Chuck and Tammy were definitely more of the ‘we all know why we’re here, lets get down to business’ type, which I don’t mind.   I think that Hubman enjoys the flirting and the teasing, and the buildup as much as the actual fucking, and that was not something Chuck and Tammy provided.   However they had just come back from a long day with a bit of travel, so I think that flirting and teasing would simply be part of relationship building with them.

I also found Tammy really hot, and Chuck was attractive as well.  Plus he was a math geek, which I find pretty sexy.  All in all, I would absolutely fuck them again.  Another big plus with Chuck and Tammy is that they live about 20 minutes away from us.  Close enough to easily do a booty call, far away enough that we don’t run into them everywhere.

Ed and Lisa were also a great couple, and I connected pretty well with Lisa.  She had a great sense of humor and was very attractive.  And while I was attracted to and enjoyed fucking Ed, I did not feel a huge connection to him.  He was a little on the bossy side for my tastes.  I would definitely have sex with the two of them again, as I think that his being bossier than I prefer is a communication issue that can be worked through.

All I can say that any weekend where I fuck five people is a really good weekend.

 

 

 

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17/365 Mmm Chocolate

Jan 172012
 

Monday afternoon I tweeted a photo of a bag of Nestle chocolate chips that Veronica left out on the counter. This is what she was saving them for – visit her blog on Friday for the recipe, she tried a new variation on the recipe and will be sharing it for her Friday Foodie post.

105mm macro lens, 1/6 sec at f/3.2, ISO 800

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Delayed Gratification

Jan 142012
 

For not-surprising reasons, the holidays are a slow swinging time of year. (Veronica: Hey if someone thought to throw a meet and greet at Toys R Us-I’d totally be there)  Just before Thanksgiving we heard from a couple, we’ll call them Ed and Lisa, and they immediately caught our attention.

Back and forth, I lost count of how many messages there were in the inbox on our swinger website profile. They’d suggest a night, it wouldn’t be good for use, we’d counter and it wouldn’t be good for them.  Finally we gave up and told them we’ll get back in touch after the holidays.

The first week of January arrives and Veronica and Ed are looking at calendars again. I remind her that we haven’t spoken with them yet, so one evening while I’m keeping the kids occupied she chats with both of them.  Evidently the talk got quite graphic, leaving no doubt that Lisa like Veronica is bi-sexual. Oh, and like Veronica, Lisa loves anal sex, but also like Veronica that entrance is reserved for her husband :-)

We lock in a sitter for the kids and set a date for Sunday evening with Ed and Lisa

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And then Chuck and Tammy resurface.

Who are they? Ages ago, maybe over a year, their profile caught my attention, but honestly I figured they were out of our league, they’re both hot with a capital H. I pointed out their profile to Veronica, probably some time last summer, and she contacted them. To our pleasant surprise, they got back to us!

Life is perhaps more complicated for them than for others, it’s a second marriage for both of them and who has whose kids on any given weekend can interfere with a social life, especially of the swinging kind. We would sporadically exchange messages with them, but after a while I started to wonder if we would ever actually meet up with them.

(Veronica: I kept on hoping so.  I have to admit, if we had been dealing with them when we were 1st swinging, I would have given up on them, but now after being in it for awhile, I understand that for some people, they are not blowing you off when they claim ‘vanilla demands’ are getting in the way.)

Little did I know, after the 1st of the year Veronica contacted them again.

Veronica:  I figured, why not?  If they ignored us, then fuck it.  I also had the best Subject line for them.  “Hey- its 2012 and we’re still horny”  It got their attention.

Friday evening rolls around, we’re relaxing at home and find a message from them. “Hey, we might be kid-less tomorrow night. We know it’s short notice but do you think you might be able to get out?”

Veronica IMMEDIATELY fires off a text message to our stable of sitters and to our surprise within minutes we have a Saturday night sitter!

Veronica: We had not one but TWO last minute Saturday night sitters!  It was like the Universe was telling us something.

We get back to them and makes plans for the next night.

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 Veronica: When pursuing couples it is a fine line when you try to decipher who is truly busy and who is just using ‘busy’ as an excuse to blow you off.  I figure, if a couple brings up wanting to see you, its worth throwing out an email every couple of weeks to see what happens.  Worst comes to worst, you just waste a few minutes composing an email.

This time, my persistence paid off….

 

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5/365 Lion

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Jan 052012
 

When I graduated from Penn State, Veronica gave me a miniature replica of the Nittany Lion Shrine, it sits on a shelf just above my computer at work.

I’m not sure what I did differently, but I really like how sharp and crisp this photo came out :-)

105mm macro lens, 1/13 sec at f/3.5, ISO 400

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Day 297 -Why Leaves Change Color

Oct 242011
 

Dust off your photosynthesis knowledge:

[Chlorophyll] absorbs the sunlight, which makes it critical for photosynthesis, and it is responsible for the green in leaves. During the growing season, it acts as a dominant pigment, masking pigments underneath. But here’s the thing: Chlorophyll is not a very stable compound. It requires sunlight and warm temperatures, which means photosynthesis is going gangbusters all summer. But in autumn, a few things happen. Chlorophyll gets sluggish as nights grow longer and sunlight hours shrink. … As this happens, the trees break down the chlorophyll and a yellow pigment called carotene get[s] unmasked. Carotenoids and another pigment, xanthophylls, are responsible for the yellow and orange colors in corn, carrots, pumpkins and daffodils, as well as leaves.

105mm macro lens, 1/640 sec at f/3.0, ISO 400

105mm macro lens, 1/400 sec at f/3.0, ISO 400

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Day 284 – Unreal Weather

Oct 112011
 

Yes, I already posted a photo over the weekend that documented the warm weather we’ve been having. It continued into Monday, so DB and I went for a little photo walk on Castle Island in Boston (which despite it’s name isn’t an island) before we headed to Logan Airport to pick up Veronica.

Record-breaking temps (over 80 degrees), clear blue skies, people sunbathing and playing in the surf, you’d hardly believe it was Columbus Day!

18-105mm lens at 18 mm, 1/200 sec at f/10.0, ISO 200

18-105mm lens at 18 mm, 1/250 sec at f/10.0, ISO 200

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Breaking the Law

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Sep 262011
 

I came across a website with a list of Massachusetts laws about sex.  Let’s start with adultery

MGL c.272, s. 14 Adultery.

A married person who has sexual intercourse with a person not his spouse or an unmarried person who has sexual intercourse with a married person shall be guilty of adultery and shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for not more than three years or in jail for not more than two years or by a fine of not more than five hundred dollars.

Commonwealth v. Stowell, 389 Mass. 171 (1983). The court held that the Massachusetts adultery statute was not unconstitutional and that it was proper to have applied it to consensual acts between adults in private.

Uh-oh, just by the number of partners alone I’m looking at 30+ years in state prison!

Let’s see about sodomy. BTW as I write this Veronica has a new glass plug in her asshole :-)

MGL c.272, s. 34. Crime against nature.

Whoever commits the abominable and detestable crime against nature, either with mankind or with a beast, shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for not more than twenty years.

MGL c.272, s. 35. Unnatural and lascivious acts.

Whoever commits any unnatural and lascivious act with another person shall be punished by a fine of not less than one hundred nor more than one thousand dollars or by imprisonment in the state prison for not more than five years or in jail or the house of correction for not more than two and one half years.

Commonwealth v. Balthazar, 366 Mass. 298 (1974). The “unnatural and lascivious acts” statute has been held to include public fellatio and oral-anal contact.. “must be construed to be inapplicable to private, consensual conduct of adults.”

Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders v. AG, 436 Mass. 132 (2002). “Our holdings in the Balthazar and Ferguson cases concerning acts conducted in private between consenting adults extend to § 34, as well.” [private consenting acts will not be prohibited].

Lawrence v. Texas, 539 US 558 (June 2003). Texas sodomy law ruled unconstitutional by US Supreme Court.

OK, as long as I’m not getting a blowjob, rimming someone or fucking someone in the ass in public, I’m safe!

Lastly, there’s fornication to think about

MGL c.272, s. 18. Fornication.

Whoever commits fornication shall be punished by imprisonment for not more than three months or by a fine of not more than thirty dollars.

Fort v. Fort, 12 Mass. App. Ct. 411 (1981). “The crimes of fornication, adultery, and lewd and lascivious cohabitation are never, or substantially never, made the subject of prosecution.”

Attorney Gen. v. Desilets, 418 Mass. 316 (1994). “This statute is of doubtful constitutionality, at least as applied to the private, consensual conduct of persons over the age of consent.”

Oh good, this one isn’t constitutional, it would seem.

Click here for others, including bestiality and prostitution, among others.

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Eleven

Aug 072011
 

Today, my little man aka Darling Boy turns 11 years old.

Veronica got up in the middle of the night, she thought she had to go to the bathroom, but her water broke. She woke me up, we call the hospital and go thru the whole timing-the-contractions routine. It’s around 4am and the nurses suggest that based on the time of day and the time between contractions that we stay home for now and try to get some rest.

Get some rest, that’s what the medical professionals told us to do.

So what did I do? I went back to sleep, just like I was told.

Unfortunately, that didn’t sit well with Miss-I’m-in-labor-and-it-hurts, so she woke me right up!

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This photo is one of my favorites of he and I that I’ve shared here over the years, it’s from an old HNT post. He’s a thoroughly awesome son and I count my blessings every day that he’s mine.

Happy birthday son, I love you!

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Day 197 Flash

Jul 162011
 

I treated myself to a new camera accessory, I bought an external flash last weekend. Now the challenge is figuring out how to use it! I was talking with a pro photographer friend the other day and mentioned my purchase to him, his first reaction was “those things are so damn complicated. Good luck!”

Last night I went into the yard and started playing around with the flash. This was taken while looking straight up while laying on the hammock.

Yeah, I have a ways to go with flash photography….

18-105mm lens at 18 mm, 1/15 sec at f/3.5, ISO 200, flash on auto mode

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Paris, with a personal guide

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Jul 152011
 

I’m not going to name her but if you dig through comments on earlier posts she’s already revealed herself.  To make a long story short, she contacted me in response to my Language Barrier post, written when I was still in Germany, and offered to be my personal guide around Paris. She thought it would be a shame if my language difficulties kept me from enjoying such a beautiful city.

We spent 3 hours walking around the city, chatting, enjoying a meal at an outdoor cafe and generally enjoying each others company. She even gave me a goodnight kiss on each cheek :-)

Here are some of my photos from our walk. Remember, click on any photo to view full-sized in a new window, all photos are 1500 pixels along the long edge and you can really make out some details.

We started by heading towards the Louvre by passing through the Jardin des Tuileries, this is the grand carre, an arrangement of borders around the garden proper.

1/20 sec at f/8.0, ISO 400

I had no idea that the Louvre was so big! This is just a fraction of the museum

1/100 sec at f/8.0, ISO 400

The view reminded me a little of the National Mall in Washington DC.  You can see the obelisk (better view in Paris, Day 1) and off in the distance the Arc de Triomphe, featured in this post. This photo was taken from the center of the gardens with my back to the Louvre.

1/250 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

Now maybe you can get an idea of the size of the Louvre, quite the building! My guide suggested that it’s best experienced in 3-4 hour blocks of time and to come back on several days to fully appreciate all that it was to offer.  Otherwise it’s just too much in one day, sensory overload of sorts.

1/250 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

We headed across the Seine River, this is from the Port des Arts bridge. The story goes that young couples in love attach a lock to the bridge (something about symbolizing the bond between them) and then throw the key into the river. My guide pointed out that some of them are combination locks.  So much for eternal love!

1/100 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

I have no idea what building this is, all I remember is something about cleaning buildings and how too-frequent cleaning of the relatively soft stone common to many older buildings would degrade the craftsmanship on display. There was also a vaguely sexual joke between us that I can’t remember for the life of me…

1/1250 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

Notre Dame Cathedral. If there was any one building that illustrated just how old things in Europe are compared to the US, it was this, ground was broken in 1163 and it was completed in 1345.

1/500 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

Okay, I’d like to know the artists motivation for carving a statue where the Bishop is holding his own head. WTF?

1/250 sec at f/5.6, ISO 400

Those are the highlights, thanks again to my tour guide, I wouldn’t have had half as much fun wandering the city without her. I think that may be it for my Paris photos, I did return to the Louvre the next morning before heading to the airport, we’ll see if I feel like posting those one of these days.

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