The young dead soldiers do not speak.
Nevertheless, they are heard in the still houses:
who has not heard them?
They have a silence that speaks for them at night
and when the clock counts.
They say: We were young. We have died.
Remember us.
They say: We have done what we could
but until it is finished it is not done.
They say: We have given our lives but until it is finished
no one can know what our lives gave.
They say: Our deaths are not ours: they are yours,
they will mean what you make them.
They say: Whether our lives and our deaths were for
peace and a new hope or for nothing we cannot say,
it is you who must say this.
We leave you our deaths. Give them their meaning.
We were young, they say. We have died; remember us.

~Archibald MacLeish

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This poem was read at the Massachusetts Military Heroes Fund event last Thursday. On Wednesday several hundred volunteers spent hours placing 20,000 flags on a gentle slope on Boston Common adjacent to the Soldiers and Sailors Monument. Each flag represents a serviceman or -woman from Massachusetts who died in the defense of our country from World War I onward, except for the current wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Boston Common, May 28 2011

143 Massachusetts residents have died in Iraq and Afghanistan since 9/11. Their flags were placed in the ceremony that took place on Thursday.

An individuals name and rank was read out loud, then a flag a placed in the ground.

Another individuals name and rank followed.  Then another, and another, and another, until all 143 names were read out loud.

Some of the name readers were the parents, siblings or friends of the deceased

“Staff Sergeant so-and-so, my son…”

“My brother, my hero, 1st Lieutenant so-and-so…”

“My son, Private First Class so-and-so…”

As heart-breaking as it was to hear those words spoken out loud, nothing compared to the words of Alma Hart.  Ms Harts son was the first Massachusetts soldier to be killed in action in Iraq.

She spoke of catching her husband pausing and lingering over family portraits and of doing the same herself.

“Each day I walk past photos of him and want to say hi. But I can’t. Because he’s dead.”

Enjoy Memorial Day but please, remember that today has a much deeper meaning for some people, and we owe them our deepest respect and gratitude.

Mar 042011
 

We’re making some changes today through this weekend so you might see some minor weirdness. Stay tuned, and look for new entries below!

Jan 282011
 

In the foreground of this photo you can see shovel marks in the snow.  It’s gotten so deep that it’s higher than my snowblower, so I have to knock the snow down some first. In the background? Gravity took care of that!

35 mm prime lens, f/6.3, ISO 200, 1/1600th sec

Time: 9:20 am
Place: Driveway

Jan 172011
 

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Oct 142010
 

Sitting here for the last hour

Searching for inspiration

Nothing

Mind is blank

Think about trying something outside

It’s getting cold out, never mind

I think my 105+ week streak of HNT participation will be coming to an end

Unless the morning comes and inspiration strikes before I have to go to work

Suggestions are welcome…

Sep 222010
 

The first of the leaves have started to appear on my lawn…

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No Wanton Wednesday for me today, at least not yet.  I’m tired and lacking inspiration as I draft this on Tuesday evening.  But I’m thinking that I’ll get some inspiration to be a little naughty in my office tomorrow and will post something from my phone.  In the meanwhile, click the button below to see who else is feeling a little wanton this week!

You should also visit Dangerous Lilly if you’d like to see the view across the table I had when she and I had lunch together last Friday!

 

I feel that it is healthier to look out at the world through a window than through a mirror.
Otherwise, all you see is yourself and whatever is behind you
– Bill Withers

Sorry if I’m blocking your view ;-)

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I’m sure that Veronica has something worth seeing this week, but I can’t remember what I sent her!  And someone is making an appearance at The Other HNT for the first time in several months, you might be able to recognize him…

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Aug 222010
 

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It’s the simple things in life that bring me so much pleasure…

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Veronica is having some fun in the back seat and Osbasso has the list of the other half-nekkid people!

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Apr 292010
 

Yesterday I promised that my Wanton Wednesday friend’s identity would be revealed…

We hadn’t seen each other since she joined Veronica and I in Las Vegas for a few days of fun last October. While Veronica was unable to join me on this trip, I did have the pleasure of meeting her husband while I was in their neck of the woods.  And he was kind enough to take this picture for us :-)

While she hasn’t blogged since last October, I’m happy to say that the Sexy PTA Mom is alive and well and just as naughty as ever!

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Veronica arranged a nice little welcome home treat for me, you should check it out!

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