Dinner with Katie

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Jan 262012
 

Yes, the same Katie I broke up with last September, after a 7 month relationship…

Back in November I casually mentioned that I missed fucking her. I didn’t contact her at the time, though I continued to thinking about her.

The holidays rolled around and since it had been a while, I figured it should be safe to send her a “Merry Christmas and Happy New Year” text message. Within minutes she replied, clearly happy to hear from me. We exchanged pleasantries for a bit and talked about staying in touch.

A couple of weeks later, we’re texting again and I mentioned that I saw a woman at the gym that reminded me of her, and that I still think of her sometimes.  Her response? “I am sure it is my ass you think about! lol”  The conversation stays in the gutter from there, and we end up talking about getting together again, for lunch or dinner sometime.

A week later, she’s giving me a hug and a kiss when we meet for dinner at a local restaurant.  Dinner was good, it was nice to chat with her, she looks as good as ever and clearly she’s gotten over any hurt I caused when I ended things with her.  We talked about getting together again, but didn’t make any plans.

The other day she texts to wish me a happy birthday and reaffirm that she’d like to see me again.  Just to be sure I was perfectly clear of her intentions, she also said “I cannot wait to fuck you! I just want to bury my face between your legs, I’m sick of dreaming about it. Please give me your schedule and I’ll work around it”

Seems I may be fucking her again, sooner rather than later

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For those of you thinking of her and her emotional well-being, I haven’t forgotten that I ended things because she grew emotionally attached to me.  She also knows that we’re moving in 6 months and that our relationship WILL end then, no matter want, since I’ll be going 400 miles away.

I hope to have fun with her again, but I’m also going to tread cautiously, for both of our sakes…

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TMI Tuesday – Who Do?

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Jan 172012
 

Happy TMI Tuesday. Let’s play Hoo Doo (Who Do?). Answer the following questions and elaborate as you wish. Your answers can be real and truthful, fun and flirty, or crazy and whacky.

(Grammatically, some of these questions suck, so I’m answering them how I think the writer intended)

Who or Who(m) do you want to:

There’s a generic answer for almost all of these questions – Veronica, of course!!

1. Play naked twister with?

You, and you, and you…
They know who they are, the rest of you can wonder ;-)

2. Love?

The kids are the love of my life, after Veronica. Outside of other family, there are several friends I’ve grown close enough to and care so much about that I love them, in a platonic kind of way (even if I have had sex with some of them!)

3. Excites you beyond belief?

My mother-in-law, when she visits. Why? Because she *always* offers to watch the kids so we can have an overnight getaway. If she only knew what we did!

4. Enjoy ass play with?

Well I *do* enjoy ass play with Veronica on a fairly regular basis. Probably the thing I miss the most about fucking Katie is the anal sex, I was her first and she quickly grew to love and ask for it frequently.  Maybe I’ll try to entice her back into my bed sometime before we move this summer…

5. Shower with?

I can’t remember the last time I showered with someone else. Wait, I take that back, a few years ago Southern Vixen (no link, her blog is gone) and I showered together in a hotel room in Atlanta.

Could I be enticed to join Veronica, or someone else, in a shower? Of course!!

6. Undress?

Oh, just several dozen of you ;-)

7. Rim?

As much as I love anal sex, I’m not really interested in rimming. There was one time last year when I was inspired and dove in to eat Katie’s ass, she was surprised but enjoyed it, it was fun for me but it’s not something where I ever think “damn, it’s been too long since I’ve rimmed someone”

8. Elope with?

Sorry, I’m already (permanently) taken.
Now if we’re talking an overnight getaway, there are a couple of friends who just have to tell me when!

Bonus: Who do you want to wake up in the arms of? Why?

There a long-distance online friend I’m enjoying getting to know, she knows who she is, and that I’d like to wake up next to her someday.

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TMI Tuesday – Happy New Year!

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Jan 032012
 

 

Happy New Year from TMI Tuesday blog. I’ve enjoyed discovering and reading so many new blogs via TMI Tuesday. Thanks to all the players that submitted questions, themes or ideas in 2011. If you have questions you’d like to see answered for TMI Tuesday, please read the ABOUT page. Now here we go…the first TMI Tuesday questions for 2012:

1. Finish this sentence: In the New Year, as good as last year was, I hope this one is even better!

2. Do you make New Year’s Resolutions? If yes, what are they for 2012?

I haven’t made any resolutions this year.  I’ve got a number of poorly defined goals in mind, but nothing concrete.  I suppose how poorly I did with resolutions last year (see question 4) is making me hesitate. I really should suck it up and publicly commit to achieving some goals this year…

3. What New Year’s resolutions did you make last year?

From Backwards and Forwards, published Jan 2, 2011:

- I’m going to publish a minimum of 3 peer-reviewed papers at work (the projects have been on-going, this won’t be as tough as it might sound)
- Those 10 lbs I gained? Goodbye!
- My best year riding was in 2006 when I rode 1875 miles.  This year? 2000 is my goal!
- Less time online, between work and home I spend too much time looking at computer screens.  I’ve already trimmed a number of blogs from my Google Reader subscriptions and have committed to less time on Twitter via my phone during the workday.  I enjoy the time I spend online, but I need to re-prioritize how I spend that time.
- I’ve got a small pile of books by my bedside that I’m going to read, for starters.  There’s also a pretty good sized pile of articles I’ve saved at work that I need to read for the various projects I’m working on.
- Complete Project365, Year 2

4. Think of three of those resolutions, from last year. How did you do in keeping them?

Oh wow, this is bad. Of those 6 goals, I only achieved 2 of them- I completed my 2nd year of Project365 and did a lot more off-line reading (yay for the iPad kindle app, I read 11 books on that plus about a half-dozen others).

Three papers published? A 3 month temp job assignment killed any chance of that, along with another project I was handed that won’t go away.

Fitness? Yup, still have those 10 lbs, plus another 5. Bike riding suffered too, part of that was due to long hours with the temp job, only rode about 1150 miles in 2011.

Less time online? That’s a continual challenge for me, I need to do better at ignoring the online world when I’m at work most of all. That would probably help with that publishing goal too!

5. What was your most memorable sexual happening/experience in 2011?

Oh wow, where to start, I had a number of partners besides Veronica, each of whom was memorable in her own way.  I guess I have to start with Katie, the married-but-cheating woman I saw for about 6 months, it had to end, but the sex was damn good while it lasted. I traveled for a couple of nights of wonderful fun with another friend. After 3 years or so, I finally met up with a long time blogging friend in December (read the comments if you want to know who she is).  And of course, there was Veronica’s 40th birthday treat, how could we possibly forget that?

I’m supposed to pick the *most* memorable from all that, and more? I don’t think so!

Bonus: What was your most memorable experience (activity, event, etc.) in 2011?

From a non-sex related perspective, 5 days in Stuttgart Germany followed by 3 days in Paris France has to be the most memorable! Photos from that week are here, here, here and here, if you’re interested. I had never been anywhere in Europe before, so it a fantastic week, even if I was there for work and Veronica couldn’t join me.

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Apropos of Nothing

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Nov 212011
 

Monday morning, it’s brain dump time!

Last night I logged onto our SLS account and saw that we had a new e-mail.  Sounded promising, the couple are swingers and also play separately, profile reads well, they had already exchanged a few messages with Veronica.  Good, right? Then I saw their profile pics and winced. Veronica swears that the pics weren’t there when she first checked out their profile.

I’m leaving it to her to back off from them after several encouraging messages!

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It’s just me and Darling Boy for the next 3 days. This evening Veronica and Princess Persistent are flying to New York for some extra family time before Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving Day DB and I will drive down and join them and we’ll all return together sometime Friday.

We’ll be having Thanksgiving dinner at Veronica’s step-sisters place. The woman is NOT known for her cooking, Veronica insists that she maintains she size 2 figure with a diet of cheetos and diet soda. Good thing my mother-in-law will be there and will likely take over in the kitchen.

Speaking of moms and Turkey Day, my mother will also be on Long Island, with my sister and her in-laws. Last year Veronica and I stayed home, which would have been our preference again this year. But no, my mom had to insist that we come to Long Island. Of course, there wasn’t an invitation to my brother-in-laws families place, so we’re not actually spending the holiday with her.

Gotta love family….

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Thanks to certain online friends, I’ve been thinking a lot about double penetration lately. I’ve participated several times, with Veronica and another guy as part of a 4some swap, with Veronica and another woman & a strap-on, and when I joined another couple for a MFM 3some.

I love seeing a woman enjoy 2 cocks at once, better if one of those cocks is mine, it’s been too long, over a year and a half.

Any ladies with a generously sized strap-on want to visit and help me double-stuff Veronica? :-)

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Yesterday I got out for a 15 mile bike ride, that makes 6 rides and almost 100 cumulative miles for the month, not bad for November! Still, I’m 100′s of miles short of last years total mileage.

Even if it means risking hypothermia, I WILL get out for one last ride, of at least 19 miles, so that I can reach an arbitrary and otherwise meaningless goal. Because I’m dumb like that…

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It’s been 2 days and I’m already second-guessing whether I like having comments turned off.

Comments are turned back on for this post. We’ll see about future posts.

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Sometimes I miss Katie.

Correction, sometimes I miss *fucking* Katie, I could do without her emotional neediness.

With Veronica gone for the next 3 nights, it would have been good to have Katie around for a bootie call.  I wonder how she’d react if I texted her today and invited her over?

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Time to get my ass out of bed and get a move on.

Have a great Monday!

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TMI Tuesday – Breaking up is hard to do

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Oct 042011
 

This week’s TMI Tuesday idea is from Heelsnstocking

[For more about breaking up, see yesterday's Swing Shift post]

1. What’s the worst reason you have been given for breaking up?

I heard “Let’s be friends” from several girls. I HATE that reason!

Oh, I should tell you about Christie. I was a college sophomore and she was a senior, this was the semester before I met Veronica. Christie also had a boyfriend back home, I obviously knew about him but I don’t think he knew about me. Christie figured that as long as she was only sleeping with one of us (that would be him, not me) that it was okay and she wasn’t cheating on him.

I was a 20 yr old virgin and more than ready to lose that label!  Eventually she broke it off towards the end of the semester by saying “I’m sorry, I can only sleep with one guy at a time, we’re not going sleep together so we might as well end it.”  Ouch

There is a funny postscript. That fall she came back to town to visit with friends and party it up. She got drunk and showed up at my place at 2am. One of my housemates lets her in and she bangs on my bedroom door. I get up and as I’m chatting with her, Veronica calls out from my bed “honey, what’s going on?”

The look on Christie’s face was priceless :-)

2. What’s the worst reason you gave, to someone, for breaking up?

I had a pretty sparse dating history before I met Veronica and most of the time I was the dumpee, so I don’t have a good answer for this one.

3. Have you ever engineered the end of a relationship e.g doing something you know will put the other person off? If yes, what did you do?

No, and that sounds like a dick-ish way of going about ending a relationship.

4. Have you ever stayed with a partner just because you could not bear to end it?

I think the last 2 months with Katie would fall under this category. As annoying as her emotional neediness got, the sex was still pretty damn good, which is really why I couldn’t bear to end it yet.

Speaking of Katie, we exchanged emails yesterday- it’s definitely 100% no doubt about it over now.

5. Have you ever encouraged a friend to end a relationship? What happened? Are you still friends?

Yes, there was a blogger friend in a really bad marriage. They were heading towards splitsville, her hubby had an affair for over a year and while he said he was sorry, he was really just sorry that he was caught, since he’s now living with the other woman. Veronica and I lobbied for her to leave him, which she eventually did. Two+ yrs later, I KNOW that she’s a lot happier. And yes, we’re still friends!

Bonus: Have you ever been the cause of a relationship to end? Tell us about it.

Not that I know of.

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The Break Up

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Sep 172011
 

I’m not very good at it.

Frustration had been building in my relationship with Katie. She was consistently turning down opportunities to get together but also saying how she missed spending time with me. Basically she was becoming more emotionally attached to me and starting to feel used when we just got together for sex.

There’s more to it than that, but I don’t want to go into any more detail. I decided that it was time to call it quits with her.

I knew she was at work and wouldn’t be available to talk, so I texted and asked her to call me that evening when she had the chance. I wanted her to hear it directly from me, not from a text message or email.

She responded “Ok”, then never called.

The next day I got an email from her. Out of the blue she asks me if I’ve ever considered that she might be uncomfortable having sex at my house.

Excuse me? That’s the only place we’ve ever had sex!

Most of the time, we would take advantage of Veronica not being home. On several occasions though, knowing that we wanted to spend some alone time, Veronica would offer to leave for a while so Katie and I could have fun. Pretty generous of Veronica, right?  Now all of a sudden it’s an arrangement that she’s not comfortable with. Then she concludes the message by saying that she had no plans for the night and would be free for a romp in the sack.

I didn’t bother responding and waited for the call from her.

After a week, I send her the email I didn’t want to send. I couldn’t just call her, that was against the rules we had established so that I wouldn’t put her into a rough spot with her husband (besides the fact that I’ve been fucking her for 6 months).

I wasn’t antagonist or argumentative, I just told her that I thought we were heading in different directions and I wasn’t prepared to give her what she was looking for now.

Her reply was pretty short, I know she was hurt and maybe caught a little off-guard.

Do I send her a message reaffirming that our relationship is over?

No, I leave open the possibility of meeting up again.

That wasn’t fair to do at all, stringing her along like that. We haven’t been in touch since then, it’s been a week. I hope she’s doing ok.

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Wanton Wednesday – Mirror Images

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Aug 172011
 

Veronica and I as seen from the right side on Sunday night

Katie and I from the left side, 2 days later

Taken with my iPhone (as if you couldn't tell!)

Too bad I didn’t get any pics with Carla last Friday night, she looked good on her knees too.  3 women in the last week, why yes, I am a manwhore!

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Day 229 – Hedonism

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Aug 172011
 

This seemed like an appropriate beer to have while I was sitting on the couch with Katie and we were waiting to make sure the kids were asleep…

18-105mm lens at 105 mm, 1/5 sec at f/5.6, ISO 1600

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Bad Ideas

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Jul 172011
 

Katie and I been seeing each other for 5 months or so now and have been having some good times. She and Veronica get along well, I’ve met her best friend and she approves of me, and of course the sex is out-fucking-standing. I’ve been disappointed that while Katie is bi- and has talked about numerous girl-girl experiences in the past, she has expressed a reluctance to join Veronica and I for a threesome. But that’s a relatively minor thing and talking about that is a whole other post in itself…

But every once in a while she suggests something that makes me shake my head and wonder “what are you thinking?!”

Two or 3 months ago, her best friend Kelly and Kelly’s son were over for dinner on a Saturday night. It had been a little while since I had seen Katie and she suggested that Veronica and I along with the kids come over.  Oh yeah, and her hubby was home.

Really? You want me to go to your house and in one night meet you husband, daughter, best friend and her kid? Never mind explaining how you know me to your husband.  Needless to say, we declined the invitation.

More recently, she suggested that she and I go to her house to play while her hubby is out of town. They have a summer place up in Maine. Katie often works weekends, so her hubby and daughter will go up without her, leaving her free to see me. Veronica has been quite generous, offering to leave our house for a while so that Katie and I can play, but Katie often feels guilty about that arrangement.  At first I was adamant about not fucking at her house, but knowing her hubby was up in Maine, I was okay with the idea.  Looking back, that was a bad idea too. I don’t have much problem with fucking a married woman behind her husbands back, but not in his own house, that crosses a line for me, I just couldn’t get comfortable there. Judge me however you’d like for that distinction…

Lastly, she’s been asking about swinging. I mentioned that she’s reluctant to join Veronica and I for a threesome. She’s also oddly shy about any display of affection in front of Veronica. Whether I’m kissing or touching her in front of Veronica or vice versa, Katie quickly becomes visibly embarrassed by it.

She’s expressed some curiosity about swinging, how we find partners, how often we play, things like that. I’ve always been honest when answering her questions, but I’ve also been cautious about over-sharing. A few days ago she suggested that perhaps the next time Veronica and I went to a swingers party that perhaps she could come with us.

Considering her discomfort with nothing more than routine displays of affection, and her jealousy issues with my possibly fucking other women, I told her that it was not a very good idea.

It’s a good thing she’s so damn enthusiastic about getting fucked in the ass, some days she has some really bad ideas…

A photo from the archives, think of it as my thanks for reading my whining about my girlfriend :-)

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Day 191 – View from the top

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Jul 102011
 

The top of Mt Wachusett, that is.

Katie and I, along with her best friend Kelly, went for a hike yesterday evening to the 2006 ft summit of the mountain, which I believe is the highest in the state (yeah I know, 2000 ft is nothing). This is the view to the north, that’s basically southern New Hampshire that you’re looking at. I could also see the Boston skyline but from 40+ miles away with hazy skies the photo turned out like crap.

18-105mm lens at 105 mm, 1/80 sec at f/16, ISO 2000

 

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