“This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.” ~ Galatians 5:16-17
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Sinful Sunday, where it’s all about the image
One hand firmly wrapped around the shaft
The other sliding back and forth over the glans
I hit “record” to capture the 2-handed technique I was telling her about
And capture a still to share for my first HNT in months
Visit Osbasso to see who else is getting half-nekkid this week.
And please, comment if you’d like to see me playing again. Playing HNT that is 
The wonderful people at Fascinations must have some sort of sixth sense- just a week before I was scheduled to leave my wonderful Veronica for a 9 week-long work trip, they asked me if I would be interested in testing the Tantus Stroker! Of course I said yes, I’ve heard good things about other Tantus toys, and soon thereafter a package arrived at my door. Of course, by then I was in Texas and I had to wait for Veronica to ship it to me…
Click to see it in use
Normally, I would have thought “why would I need a toy to help me masturbate?” After all, Veronica and I have a very active sex life, at least when I’m home, and I actually don’t masturbate very often. Also, let’s face it, I’ve been doing the 5 knuckle chuckle for 25+ yrs, I’m pretty good at it by now, why would I need a toy? I’m the adventurous type, however, so why not?
About the Tantus Stroker- it is made out of 100% premium silicone, so it’s compatible with water-based lubes, but not silicone-based lubes. I should point out that the one they sent me is a little different from that listed on the Fascinations website- this is the XL version, which is smooth on the outside and a little longer and wider than the regular version, but otherwise they are the same (I swear, I didn’t ask for the XL version, that’s what they sent me!). Care is no different than for any other silicone toy, simply wash with antibacterial soap and water or you can boil it for a few minutes or bleached in a 10% bleach solution. Then just let it air dry completely or use a lint-free cloth and it’ll be ready to use for the next time.
After spending a little time looking at some porn online one day, I decided it was a good time to test the Stroker. I applied a bit of lube to my cock and slid into the Stroker. And quickly learned my first lesson- because there was still lube on the palm of my hand, I couldn’t get a good grip, so rather than pumping my cock with the Stroker, my hand was just slipping along the outside. However, after quickly toweling off my hand, I was good to go.
Click to see the result
I’ll admit, I was skeptical about how it might feel, but I liked it! It’s not the same as my hand or a pussy (of course!) but the ridges inside feel good and by simply adjusting the firmness of my grip I could control the sensation. I had no trouble with needing to reapply lube and enjoyed using it more than I thought I mind. In fact, I’ve used it several more times since that first test.
One thing I haven’t done yet is use the Stroker with a partner. I’ll admit, I’ve never been a fan of the handjob. Don’t get me wrong, I like a woman stroking my cock, especially as she’s sucking my cock at the same time, but other than that, a handjob really isn’t my thing. However, I’m curious to try the Stroker with a partner. Any volunteers?
Thanks again to Fascinations for sending me the Tantus Stroker to try out. Make sure to visit their site for all of your sex toy wants and needs!
The wonderful people at Fascinations sent me the Tantus Stroker to review.
*click-click* to see it put to work, and be sure to return on Friday for my complete review
I first tried prostate stimulation with a toy a few months ago and wrote about it here. That particular toy didn’t do much for me, but thankfully the ever-helpful Dangerous Lilly offered to recommend a few other prostate stimulation toys for me, which lead me to buy a Nexus Excel from Eden Fantasys.
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I make myself comfortable and start to apply some lube to the toy and to myself. I find a position that I think will work and start to work the toy in. But it hurts a bit, more than previous anal self-play ever had. Hmm, not enough lube? So I add some more [after all, the anal penetration mantra is lube, lube and more lube, at least for us beginners!] and try again. No luck, it’s not going anywhere. Rather than continue, I listen to my body and put the toy aside.
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Two weeks ago Veronica spent Friday night in Boston at a conference, leaving me home with the kids. Once they were asleep, I waited awhile for a friend to come online. There were tentative plans to say hi on webcam for the first time, but as they say, the best laid plans…
Alone without my love for the night and horny as hell, I got the Excel out again. I apply some lube to a finger and start rubbing around my ass, taking my time, feeling myself relax, probing a little deeper. A generous application of lube on the toy and I begin to slide it in. I feel myself tense up, so I pause, feel myself relax, and push the toy in a little further. There, all the way in, I can feel some gentle pressure inside and the chrome ball is nestled against my perineum.
Standing up, I’m pleasantly surprised that it’s actually fairly comfortable. A little lube on my cock and I begin to think about the friend who couldn’t join me on webcam earlier in the evening. As I move and muscles contract I feel the toy pressing inside me. It takes a moment to get used to, but I like it! Thinking about my friend and things that she’s told me about her sexual appetite and with the added stimulation of the pressure on my prostate, I quickly bring myself to a very satisfying orgasm. No doubt about it, the toy definitely enhanced my orgasm.
Now to use it when I fuck Veronica one of these days….
I don’t always play TMI Tuesday, but I couldn’t resist this week!
1. When you masturbate, how long, typically, is your session and what do you think about (other than having an orgasm)?
It depends. When Veronica was away last Friday night [and I had my prostate toy out, err, I mean in] I took my time, maybe 20 minutes. If I’m overwhelmingly horny at work, I can bring myself to orgasm in just a few minutes.
I’m a very visual person, so looking at porn is an integral part of when I beat the meat. But I also think about past lovers, group situations we’ve been in, erotic sights we’ve seen [which reminds me, Veronica and I have to write about last Saturday night at the swingers club!], and of course I fantasize about others.
2. Have you ever been “caught” masturbating?
Sure, but fortunately never by my parents! I’m sure that Veronica has found me in front of the webcam doing the 5 knuckle chuckle before. Oh wait, that’s the next question….
3. Have you ever masturbated in front of your computer? If ‘yes’ was it for your own purposes or for someone’s viewing pleasure?
Why yes I have There might even be a woman or two reading this who has watched me go on a date with Handrea and Palmela.
4. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?
No I haven’t.
5. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or?
Sometimes I keep stroking while I cum, other times a little gentle pressure adds some, ummm, distance…
6. Have you ever video’ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?
Yes I have! There are several videos of me rubbing one out on my computer. And maybe on someone else’s computer, if she saved them.
Ask to see one of them if you want, but I’ll ask for something in return
Bonus (as in optional): How often do you use the word “fuck” (or its derivatives) in casual conversation – frequently, occasionally, rarely, never.
Fuck is a wonderful word and I use it quite frequently! Taken from elsewhere on the web:
In language, “fuck” falls into many grammatical categories, making it one of the most versatile words in the English language.
It can be used as a verb, both transitive (John fucked Jane) and intransitive (John and Jane fucked). It can be an active verb (John fucked Jane) or a passive verb (Jane was fucked by John). Or an adverb (Jane is a fucking bastard) and a noun (Jane is a terrific fuck). It can be used as an adjective (Jane is fucking beautiful).
And don’t forget these famous uses of fuck:
General Custer: “Where did all them fucking Indians come from?”
Mayor of Hiroshima ”What the fuck was that?”
Captain of the Titanic ”Where’s all the fucking water coming from?”
Michelangelo “You want me to paint what on the fucking ceiling?”
Einstein “Any fucker could understand that.”
Have a great fucking day!
No miscellany intro this week, let’s get right to the questions. Click here to see who else is playing! They’re always on the lookout for questions, so if you have any [just one or a whole theme], send ‘em in!
1. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?
No I haven’t, and to be honest as much as I enjoy choking the chicken masturbating now and then, I’m not interested either.
2. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside?
It depends. Usually when I play the skin flute masturbate I continue to stimulate myself. It feels good, ya know?
3. Have you ever video’ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?
Why yes I have video’ed myself having a 3some with thumbalina and rosey palm masturbating! That file is on the computer sitting on my lap. In fact, I shared it with a friend just the other day
4. Have you ever look at porn online? Have you ever posted at porn online?
D’uh! Of course I have. What do you think I’m looking at when I perform hand-to-gland combat masturbate? As far as posting porn online, go back to my HNT last week, look at the click-thru and decide for yourself….
5. Do you send/recieve dirty email jokes and pictures?
Pretty much on a daily basis, at least as far as pictures go. Gotta love cell phone cameras and picture messaging…
Bonus: Have you ever told someone they were good in bed when they weren’t?
No, that would be incredibly rude, even if it was true.
Speaking of cell phone cameras, I came out of the bathroom after my morning routine a little while ago and this was the site before me. I couldn’t resist grabbing a picture. After I grabbed her ass Pretty nice, huh?
In a manner of speaking…
I have an unexpected morning at home, waiting for a delivery that requires one of us to be here. Do I putter around the house? Clean something? Do some laundry? Nah, not today, I’m gonna sit back, surf the web and see who pops up on chat.
At work, all instant messenger programs are blocked, so chatting during the day is a rare treat. Before I know it, I’m juggling 3 chats. The delivery men show up, so I end my chats and deal with the delivery. Fifteen minutes later, they’re done and gone, but it’s still early and I could easily stay home for another hour before heading to the office. Sure, I have work to do, lots of it, but what the hell…
I resume chatting with one of my friends and suggest something…
Her: well, [daughter] isn’t up yet – so she could disrupt any fun, but if you’re willing to risk it….
Hubman: it’s not me taking any risk, so not for me to say, up to you
Her: we could do a few minutes at least
just be forewarned that we could be interrupted
Hubman: understood!
still there? i switched from google talk to gmail chat
Her: yep, still here
Hubman: good, and i moved downstairs
Her: ahh
Hubman: so the computer isn’t on my lap
You know why I wanted the laptop off my lap, right?
The chat record ends there, since I invited her to video chat. You know one of things I love about Google chat with video? How reliable the audio channel is, plus my laptop has a built-in microphone.
So my hands are free.
She’s in her bedroom, sitting on the edge of her bed. I see her face and upper chest, bare.
Are you naked?
Yes I am
Stand up, let me see
Her bare chest comes into view, breasts hanging heavily, nipples large and erect. My cock starts stirring in my pants and then she sits down, looking at me again.
You’re having an effect on me. You want to see?
What do you think?
I unbutton my pants and push them and my underwear down around my ankles without fully standing up, so she can tell what I’ve done, but she can’t see anything yet. She can see my arm moving, unmistakably stroking my cock. I stand up and redirect the webcam, giving her a clear view of my hand sliding up and down my shaft. After a few moments I sit back down and ask her “You like what you see?”
Oh yes. Do I get to see more?
As long as you still have the time? She does, so I resume, but not before first telling her “play with your tits for me”
She appears more than happy to comply and starts running her fingers over her large areola, stroking her nipples, lifting her breasts and pushing them together…
I was just going to give her a little show and then stop, but now…
Would you like to see me finish?
Oh yeah, I’d like that very much.
I stand back up and start stroking myself a little faster, sometimes using both hands together. I glance down at the monitor and see her continuing to play with her tits and staring at the screen. Faster now, feeling my orgasm building, gripping a little tighter, stroking a little faster still, my breath quickening. Getting close, so close, oh my god here I cum…
My breathing is a little ragged as my orgasm subsides. I look down to see her grinning in appreciation and can’t help but notice the puddle of cum on the desk. I sit down and look at her.
Well, that was unexpected. I need to get a paper towel to clean up
Oh, really?
Yes, would you like to see?
I would!
I angle the webcam down at the desk surface, showing her the result of my play.
Oh wow
Oh wow? It’s not that much! We make small talk for a few more minutes, but then realize we need to get about our respective mornings. I have to get to the office and she needs to attend to her now-awake daughter [she's in a different time zone...].
Maybe next time we can involve our spouses! They’re gonna feel left out!
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For some non-sex writing, I’m up at Hot Dads today with some thoughts on fathers and sons.
Last Wednesday I mentioned that I was closing in on 1000 comments and offered to do something for whoever was the unlucky victim commenter. Southern Girl‘s comment on 50 sexting acronyms was it! Two things made me happy about this- it wasn’t someone who already knows me well, but it was someone who comments fairly regularly. So what did she ask for and what did I do for her? None of your business
Goodnight tweeps - posted on 07/02/2012 22:41
