Man sends unsolicited cock shots to a woman he finds on the internet
Man fancies himself a well-hung stud
Man suggests that he could fuck her while her husband watches
Man obviously has no fucking clue about Veronica and I
Man incurs mocking from Veronica on her blog 
In the 3+ years that Veronica and I have been swinging and then progressed to an open marriage, I’ve never had jealousy issues with her enjoying other partners. Oddly enough though, I have experienced feelings of jealousy with other partners.
Long-time readers may remember SwingerWife. She and her hubby had a blog, which I came across before Veronica and I ever had our first full-swap experience (or before I even had a blog, now that I think of it!). We struck up a friendship and they became long-distance mentors to us, later we met up and had a memorable weekend of sexy fun. Shortly before we all met, she and her husband decided to open their marriage and see people separately. To this day I can remember her calling me barely 5 minutes after “Chad” left her house after they first time they fucked, and how excited I was to hear about it.
Once she and I had our fun together, it changed for me, I wasn’t comfortable hearing about her latest adventures with him. It got to the point where I told her I didn’t want to hear any details, and that I wouldn’t be reading any blog posts about him.
Was it jealousy? I’m not sure, but I think it was, and it was a foreign feeling to me, especially since I wasn’t experiencing any jealously with Veronica.
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Fast forward to this fall, I had a little getaway with a Twitter friend, we spent 2 memorable nights together. Since then, she and I have each had fun with other partners and have shared some details of those adventures with each other.
A week or so ago, she had a little getaway with another friend of hers. Unlike 3 years ago when I couldn’t handle hearing SwingerWife’s adventures, this time around I’m genuinely happy that my friend had so much fun and can’t wait to hear the dirty details.
What’s different? Is it the benefit of experience and growing emotionally and mentally as a swinger?
Your guess is as good as mine, all I know is that I couldn’t be happier the swinging adventures that Veronica and I share, and that we share with our friends
Veronica: In my opinion I think that your ‘jealousy’ with Swingerwife was just being new with the whole swinging/open marriage concept, and now that you have experience with sharing, it’s less of an issue. I also think that we have not experienced jealousy with each other because we are both very secure in our primary relationship, and we follow up with each other so much on how we are feeling about our experiences.
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Swing Shift started in June of 2009 in response to questions we received from readers interested in swinging and open relationships. When we started swinging we had on-line friends who were our mentors, helping us navigate the open waters. These posts are our way of paying it forward and sharing our lessons learned. If you have a topic suggestion or question for a future Swing Shift, contact me at hubman38@gmail.com and indicate if you’d prefer to remain anonymous or not. The full archives can be found here.
Yes, the same Katie I broke up with last September, after a 7 month relationship…
Back in November I casually mentioned that I missed fucking her. I didn’t contact her at the time, though I continued to thinking about her.
The holidays rolled around and since it had been a while, I figured it should be safe to send her a “Merry Christmas and Happy New Year” text message. Within minutes she replied, clearly happy to hear from me. We exchanged pleasantries for a bit and talked about staying in touch.
A couple of weeks later, we’re texting again and I mentioned that I saw a woman at the gym that reminded me of her, and that I still think of her sometimes. Her response? “I am sure it is my ass you think about! lol” The conversation stays in the gutter from there, and we end up talking about getting together again, for lunch or dinner sometime.
A week later, she’s giving me a hug and a kiss when we meet for dinner at a local restaurant. Dinner was good, it was nice to chat with her, she looks as good as ever and clearly she’s gotten over any hurt I caused when I ended things with her. We talked about getting together again, but didn’t make any plans.
The other day she texts to wish me a happy birthday and reaffirm that she’d like to see me again. Just to be sure I was perfectly clear of her intentions, she also said “I cannot wait to fuck you! I just want to bury my face between your legs, I’m sick of dreaming about it. Please give me your schedule and I’ll work around it”
Seems I may be fucking her again, sooner rather than later
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For those of you thinking of her and her emotional well-being, I haven’t forgotten that I ended things because she grew emotionally attached to me. She also knows that we’re moving in 6 months and that our relationship WILL end then, no matter want, since I’ll be going 400 miles away.
I hope to have fun with her again, but I’m also going to tread cautiously, for both of our sakes…
[Veronica suggested "A Tale of Two Fucks" for a title, I overruled her. Like I'm that crude 
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Three plus years into our swinging adventures, of course I know that chemistry is equal important, if not more so, as physical attraction. I suppose I shouldn’t have been surprised when in one weekend that importance is so clearly illustrated for me.
Tammy, object of my fantasies for quite some time. Before we even contacted them, I’d browse their profile pics and think about getting my hands on her. Tall, oh-so pretty, great figure, she’s a delight to look at from head to toe.
Veronica and I met Tammy and Chuck at a bar close to their place. We grabbed a table, ordered a round of drinks and started to get to know each other. As it turns out we have a number of mutual friends in the lifestyle, not necessarily people we fucked but at least know from parties. After an hour or so, a loud and not-very-good blues band started playing, which really put a damper on the conversation. We were all enjoying ourselves, so they invited us back to their house.
Looking back, I suppose I should have seen it coming. I enjoyed Tammy’s company, she was every bit as attractive in person, but there just wasn’t a spark of desire there. I certainly enjoyed all that we did together, plus watching her and Veronica play with each, watching Veronica fuck and get fucked by Chuck and for the first time ever seeing Veronica take another man’s load in her mouth.
At the end of the night, it was certainly a good night, but not the great night I was hoping for.
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24 hours later and we’re out again, heading to Lisa and Ed’s house. They had contacted us, my first impression was that she was attractive, nice figure, but not Tammy-hot. I’m an optimist though, so I headed out with a ‘let’s have fun and see what happens” attitude.
They’ve got a great finished basement, bar area, couches and a pool table. We spend quite a bit of time chatting, drinking, and shooting pool. And flirting, Tammy was quite the flirt, casting glances my way, randomly grabbing me, sneaking a kiss now and then. It was fun and most definitely arousing.
Pool becomes strip pool, which leads to more flirting, touching, and arousal. Off to the hot tub we all go, more touching, the girls really get into each other (no pun intended!), then back into the house to continue to fun.
The girls continue, Ed and I join in as we see fit, sometimes watching, sometimes playing. I seem to remember all 4 of us connected in some fashion, but honestly I can’t recall the exact details!
Eventually I reach the point where my orgasm is imminent, Lisa encourages me to pull out and come on her, which of course I’m more than happy to do. She presented herself to Veronica, who eagerly uses her mouth to clean up the mess I made.
Gotta love when there’s attraction AND chemistry!!
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Veronica: I had a very good time with both couples.
Chuck and Tammy were definitely more of the ‘we all know why we’re here, lets get down to business’ type, which I don’t mind. I think that Hubman enjoys the flirting and the teasing, and the buildup as much as the actual fucking, and that was not something Chuck and Tammy provided. However they had just come back from a long day with a bit of travel, so I think that flirting and teasing would simply be part of relationship building with them.
I also found Tammy really hot, and Chuck was attractive as well. Plus he was a math geek, which I find pretty sexy. All in all, I would absolutely fuck them again. Another big plus with Chuck and Tammy is that they live about 20 minutes away from us. Close enough to easily do a booty call, far away enough that we don’t run into them everywhere.
Ed and Lisa were also a great couple, and I connected pretty well with Lisa. She had a great sense of humor and was very attractive. And while I was attracted to and enjoyed fucking Ed, I did not feel a huge connection to him. He was a little on the bossy side for my tastes. I would definitely have sex with the two of them again, as I think that his being bossier than I prefer is a communication issue that can be worked through.
All I can say that any weekend where I fuck five people is a really good weekend.
Happy TMI Tuesday. Let’s play Hoo Doo (Who Do?). Answer the following questions and elaborate as you wish. Your answers can be real and truthful, fun and flirty, or crazy and whacky.
(Grammatically, some of these questions suck, so I’m answering them how I think the writer intended)
Who or Who(m) do you want to:
There’s a generic answer for almost all of these questions – Veronica, of course!!
1. Play naked twister with?
You, and you, and you…
They know who they are, the rest of you can wonder
2. Love?
The kids are the love of my life, after Veronica. Outside of other family, there are several friends I’ve grown close enough to and care so much about that I love them, in a platonic kind of way (even if I have had sex with some of them!)
3. Excites you beyond belief?
My mother-in-law, when she visits. Why? Because she *always* offers to watch the kids so we can have an overnight getaway. If she only knew what we did!
4. Enjoy ass play with?
Well I *do* enjoy ass play with Veronica on a fairly regular basis. Probably the thing I miss the most about fucking Katie is the anal sex, I was her first and she quickly grew to love and ask for it frequently. Maybe I’ll try to entice her back into my bed sometime before we move this summer…
5. Shower with?
I can’t remember the last time I showered with someone else. Wait, I take that back, a few years ago Southern Vixen (no link, her blog is gone) and I showered together in a hotel room in Atlanta.
Could I be enticed to join Veronica, or someone else, in a shower? Of course!!
6. Undress?
Oh, just several dozen of you
7. Rim?
As much as I love anal sex, I’m not really interested in rimming. There was one time last year when I was inspired and dove in to eat Katie’s ass, she was surprised but enjoyed it, it was fun for me but it’s not something where I ever think “damn, it’s been too long since I’ve rimmed someone”
8. Elope with?
Sorry, I’m already (permanently) taken.
Now if we’re talking an overnight getaway, there are a couple of friends who just have to tell me when!
Bonus: Who do you want to wake up in the arms of? Why?
There a long-distance online friend I’m enjoying getting to know, she knows who she is, and that I’d like to wake up next to her someday.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your blog, answer the questions there, then leave a comment on the tmituesdayblog so we’ll all know where to read your responses!
Happy TMI Tuesday!
My new (met in person for the 1st time Friday evening) yet old (have known each other virtually for almost 3 yrs) friend did her very best to wear me out.
I did manage to rise to the occasion one more time, so I guess I wasn’t totally spent
(Maybe she’ll see this and comment to reveal her identity…)
Sinful Sunday, where it’s all about the image
“I happen to be free tonight. After work drink?”
The message was a pleasant surprise. She and I had exchanged messages almost 2 months ago, I ran across her profile online, like me she is in an open marriage, so I contacted her. There seemed to be a connection, but life got in the way for both of us and it wasn’t until yesterday that we finally got together.
I had one problem. What I was wearing to work wasn’t quite appropriate, it was a little too casual, too sloppy, for a first date.
Being mindful of the importance of first impressions, I stopped by somewhere on my way to meet her and picked up a new shirt.
Veronica was so proud of me, I selected something that she liked without any help from her!
If you’re wondering how the date went, I’m not sure. I think we had a nice time, I certainly enjoyed her company, but the goodbye was kinda lukewarm and left me wondering if the feeling was mutual for her. Only time will tell, I suppose…
I suppose that this is a post about the possibility of wantonness to come, for more explicit wantonness click the button below and I’m sure you’ll find something to your liking!
I don’t exactly have an uncommon first name. According to How Many of Me, there are over 3,700,000 men who share my first name in the US, which makes it the 6th most common.
With that in mind, this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black, but damn ladies, why do so many of you have similar names?
The problem is, as a swinger who has been known to occasionally sext and share pics with certain friends (yes really!), there’s the risk of sending a message or photo to the wrong person.
Case in point, we have a blogger friend in Florida and a swinger friend nearby who share a first name. I once texted a photo meant for the local friend to the friend in Florida and made a remark about looking forward to seeing her soon. The puzzled reply clued me in (I’m a little slow sometimes) that I might have sent it to the wrong person. Fortunately I had shared similar types of photos with the friend in Florida before, so it was all good.
There have been some close calls though. Remember Katie, who I had a 7 month relationship with? That’s not her real first name (surprise!), she and my sister share the same name. All it took was one fortunately innocuous text to my sister but meant for Katie to keep me on my toes from then on!
Looking in my phone contacts, there are 8 women who share a first name. One I know from childhood, the rest are all friends from blogging or Twitter. I’ve met 4 of the 7 and slept with 2 of them. And, those 2 have the same number of letters & syllables in their last names, so a quick glance won’t do, I need to stop and think “is this who I want to send this to?”
It’s only a matter of time before I fuck up and text the wrong person.
I know, it’s a rough life I lead, keeping my naughty friends straight
Veronica is on her hands and knees on the hotel room bed, our friend is by her side and watching me fuck her. Remembering something that our friend once told me, I reach over and grab her head.
Slick with Veronica’s juices, I push my cock into her mouth, then keep pushing until she’s taken all of me. With a firm handful of hair, I keep my cock there for just a moment longer than she’s comfortable with. Releasing her from my grasp, I withdraw and slip back into Veronica’s cunt.
Did Veronica even realize what I was doing while I left there, ass up in the air, cunt so rudely left wanting for something inside?
Back and forth I go
Fucking Veronica
Fucking our friends mouth
Fucking Veronica
Over and over, making sure our friend get to fulfill her fantasy of sucking my cock intermingled with the taste of Veronica.
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3+ years of swinging and numerous 3somes with a variety of women, and yet I’m still experiencing some things for the first time.
I love my life
The idea of the Scavenger Hunt is to be inappropriately exposed in various places.
I could be butt-naked in a park
I could have my pants down around my ankles while in my office at work
I could be exposing myself in the middle of the road
Or, it could be something tamer, yet inappropriate in it’s own way, depending on your perspective.
What we have here is a normal appearing couple sitting in the airport waiting for a flight and holding hands. What you don’t see is that I’m heading home to Veronica, and she to her husband. You also wouldn’t know that we spent the last 48 hours engaged in various carnal delights, which our spouses knew all about.
I suspect that would be inappropriate to a number of people.
*click-click to see my view during lunch at the airport*
If you really want to see more of my friend, you may already have, she was my HNT Mystery Guest not too long ago
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Goodnight tweeps - posted on 07/02/2012 22:41
