“I happen to be free tonight. After work drink?”

The message was a pleasant surprise. She and I had exchanged messages almost 2 months ago, I ran across her profile online, like me she is in an open marriage, so I contacted her. There seemed to be a connection, but life got in the way for both of us and it wasn’t until yesterday that we finally got together.

I had one problem. What I was wearing to work wasn’t quite appropriate, it was a little too casual, too sloppy, for a first date.

Being mindful of the importance of first impressions, I stopped by somewhere on my way to meet her and picked up a new shirt.

Veronica was so proud of me, I selected something that she liked without any help from her! :-)

If you’re wondering how the date went, I’m not sure. I think we had a nice time, I certainly enjoyed her company, but the goodbye was kinda lukewarm and left me wondering if the feeling was mutual for her. Only time will tell, I suppose…

I suppose that this is a post about the possibility of wantonness to come, for more explicit wantonness click the button below and I’m sure you’ll find something to your liking!

 

I don’t exactly have an uncommon first name. According to How Many of Me, there are over 3,700,000 men who share my first name in the US, which makes it the 6th most common.

With that in mind, this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black, but damn ladies, why do so many of you have similar names?

The problem is, as a swinger who has been known to occasionally sext and share pics with certain friends (yes really!), there’s the risk of sending a message or photo to the wrong person.

Case in point, we have a blogger friend in Florida and a swinger friend nearby who share a first name. I once texted a photo meant for the local friend to the friend in Florida and made a remark about looking forward to seeing her soon. The puzzled reply clued me in (I’m a little slow sometimes) that I might have sent it to the wrong person. Fortunately I had shared similar types of photos with the friend in Florida before, so it was all good.

There have been some close calls though. Remember Katie, who I had a 7 month relationship with? That’s not her real first name (surprise!), she and my sister share the same name. All it took was one fortunately innocuous text to my sister but meant for Katie to keep me on my toes from then on!

Looking in my phone contacts, there are 8 women who share a first name. One I know from childhood, the rest are all friends from blogging or Twitter. I’ve met 4 of the 7 and slept with 2 of them. And, those 2 have the same number of letters & syllables in their last names, so a quick glance won’t do, I need to stop and think “is this who I want to send this to?”

It’s only a matter of time before I fuck up and text the wrong person.

I know, it’s a rough life I lead, keeping my naughty friends straight :-)

Oct 272011
 

Veronica is on her hands and knees on the hotel room bed, our friend is by her side and watching me fuck her. Remembering something that our friend once told me, I reach over and grab her head.

Slick with Veronica’s juices, I push my cock into her mouth, then keep pushing until she’s taken all of me. With a firm handful of hair, I keep my cock there for just a moment longer than she’s comfortable with. Releasing her from my grasp, I withdraw and slip back into Veronica’s cunt.

Did Veronica even realize what I was doing while I left there, ass up in the air, cunt so rudely left wanting for something inside?

Back and forth I go
Fucking Veronica
Fucking our friends mouth
Fucking Veronica

Over and over, making sure our friend get to fulfill her fantasy of sucking my cock intermingled with the taste of Veronica.

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3+ years of swinging and numerous 3somes with a variety of women, and yet I’m still experiencing some things for the first time.

I love my life :-)

 

The idea of the Scavenger Hunt is to be inappropriately exposed in various places.

I could be butt-naked in a park
I could have my pants down around my ankles while in my office at work
I could be exposing myself in the middle of the road

Or, it could be something tamer, yet inappropriate in it’s own way, depending on your perspective.

What we have here is a normal appearing couple sitting in the airport waiting for a flight and holding hands. What you don’t see is that I’m heading home to Veronica, and she to her husband.  You also wouldn’t know that we spent the last 48 hours engaged in various carnal delights, which our spouses knew all about.

I suspect that would be inappropriate to a number of people.

*click-click to see my view during lunch at the airport*

If you really want to see more of my friend, you may already have, she was my HNT Mystery Guest not too long ago :-)

Click the button to see who else is playing this week.

 

A year ago, she caught my eye on Twitter and I started following her.

10 months ago, she changed her avatar to a provocative cleavage image. I DM’d her and asked if there might be other, even more revealing, photos of her out there, if I looked hard enough. There weren’t, but that didn’t stop her from emailing me a little visual treat.

7 or 8 months ago, she and her husband opened up their marriage. Veronica and I offered some advice to them and we’d like to think that we’ve helped them successfully navigate the open-marriage waters.  (Veronica- I always love hearing from people who are thinking about opening things up.  The open marriage people are a great community)

4 months ago, she and I thought we might have a chance to meet. Too bad I was in her timezone, and she in mine, at the same time.

2 months ago, another opportunity arose. She was coming to somewhere on the east coast for a week for a conference. Calendars were checked, spouses were consulted, and soon thereafter I bought my plane ticket.

3 days ago, I was sitting in the lobby of her hotel, waiting for her to walk in the door. We were going to have almost 48 hrs together…

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It’s always interesting meeting friends from blogging or Twitter. Will you hit it off really well? Just get along? Not get along that well at all?  Physical attraction, even after extensive photo [and some video :-) ] sharing, isn’t enough. We’ve committed to spending 2 nights together, after only speaking on the phone once before. We’re pretty sure we’ll get along fine, but you never know.

Fortunately, our mutual concerns were quickly cast aside and we established a wonderful personal connection.

Hours of pillow talk in the room

Wandering around a city neither of us knew well at all, even though I’d spent some time in the area before

Taking photographs with her. Thanks to her, I now have 3 weeks of Wanton Wednesday photos, at 3 more Scavenger Hunt locations, ready to go. You might even get to see some of her.

Walking hand in hand through a park and having an older gentlemen remark that we looked like such a nice couple.

Talking about family, friends, Twitter friends, relationships, experiences

We never lacked for conversation. Or for desire to stop the talking for a bit and to fuck yet again.

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I’m not revealing the identity of my Twitter friend, her online persona is a little more vanilla and no one there knows that she has an open marriage. I’m also not writing about our sexual escapades. We had fun, over and over and over, but the details are between she and I.

I will say this about her- she was fabulous :-)

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Veronica: I know that for some people it might seem odd that I am fine with Hubman buying a plane ticket and fucking another woman.  I remember back when we had blog drama some people ripped into me for ‘staying home and baking cookies while my husband fucks other women.’  But you know, I like it.   It turns me on to think of Hubman pleasing, and being pleasured by someone else.  While I do not ask for tons of details, I do hear (and if I’m lucky see pictures) about the sexy fun that happened while I was making spreadsheet magic at work or reading “The Very Fairy Princess” for the 100th time.

One of the benefits of having an open marriage is that it gives us the chance to explore things that the other person might not be as excited about.  While Hubman and I are very compatible and enjoy experimenting, there are things that don’t work for us, either due to the 10″ height difference or a simple desire to try something the other person may not be interested in.  Having other partners gives us almost unlimited opportunities for experimentation, which is pretty stinking awesome.

And at the end of the day, you can’t leave out the emotional component.  Hubman and I may share our bodies with other people, and even deeply care about these people, but he is my Hubman and I will always be his number #1 girl.   It is this security in our love and commitment to each other that allows me to encourage him to go out and follow his heart (cock) and have fun.

Sep 212011
 

We’re driving down the street, I’m taking her back to her car. Her panties are still on the floor and her skirt is hiked up, giving me access to her very damp pussy.

My hand is between her thighs, I’m alternately sliding a finger in and out and rubbing her clit.

“Oh right there, right there, that’s it!”

Wow, I wasn’t really expecting that reaction from her!

But I’m afraid it wasn’t what I thought.

I missed the turn for the parking lot and her car :-/

We did get a good laugh out of it!

 

This was paired with the Date Night Bra, (partly) seen on Day 205. We had a fabulous time with some new friends on Friday night :-)

18-105mm lens at 45 mm, 1/5 sec at f/4.8, ISO 1600

 

Veronica and I as seen from the right side on Sunday night

Katie and I from the left side, 2 days later

Taken with my iPhone (as if you couldn't tell!)

Too bad I didn’t get any pics with Carla last Friday night, she looked good on her knees too.  3 women in the last week, why yes, I am a manwhore!

Who else is feeling wanton this Wednesday? Click the button to visit Molly and find out.

Jul 172011
 

Katie and I been seeing each other for 5 months or so now and have been having some good times. She and Veronica get along well, I’ve met her best friend and she approves of me, and of course the sex is out-fucking-standing. I’ve been disappointed that while Katie is bi- and has talked about numerous girl-girl experiences in the past, she has expressed a reluctance to join Veronica and I for a threesome. But that’s a relatively minor thing and talking about that is a whole other post in itself…

But every once in a while she suggests something that makes me shake my head and wonder “what are you thinking?!”

Two or 3 months ago, her best friend Kelly and Kelly’s son were over for dinner on a Saturday night. It had been a little while since I had seen Katie and she suggested that Veronica and I along with the kids come over.  Oh yeah, and her hubby was home.

Really? You want me to go to your house and in one night meet you husband, daughter, best friend and her kid? Never mind explaining how you know me to your husband.  Needless to say, we declined the invitation.

More recently, she suggested that she and I go to her house to play while her hubby is out of town. They have a summer place up in Maine. Katie often works weekends, so her hubby and daughter will go up without her, leaving her free to see me. Veronica has been quite generous, offering to leave our house for a while so that Katie and I can play, but Katie often feels guilty about that arrangement.  At first I was adamant about not fucking at her house, but knowing her hubby was up in Maine, I was okay with the idea.  Looking back, that was a bad idea too. I don’t have much problem with fucking a married woman behind her husbands back, but not in his own house, that crosses a line for me, I just couldn’t get comfortable there. Judge me however you’d like for that distinction…

Lastly, she’s been asking about swinging. I mentioned that she’s reluctant to join Veronica and I for a threesome. She’s also oddly shy about any display of affection in front of Veronica. Whether I’m kissing or touching her in front of Veronica or vice versa, Katie quickly becomes visibly embarrassed by it.

She’s expressed some curiosity about swinging, how we find partners, how often we play, things like that. I’ve always been honest when answering her questions, but I’ve also been cautious about over-sharing. A few days ago she suggested that perhaps the next time Veronica and I went to a swingers party that perhaps she could come with us.

Considering her discomfort with nothing more than routine displays of affection, and her jealousy issues with my possibly fucking other women, I told her that it was not a very good idea.

It’s a good thing she’s so damn enthusiastic about getting fucked in the ass, some days she has some really bad ideas…

A photo from the archives, think of it as my thanks for reading my whining about my girlfriend :-)

 

I was away for work and amusing myself during a quiet evening in my hotel room by sending pictures to Katie while she was at work. Her response is usually a combination of thankful “oh very nice” and naive “how could you? you dirty boy!”

Just as I was starting to wonder what she thought of the random naked pictures I was sharing, I get this text message:

“Oh, my gal pal like it too”

“What?!”

“My best bud Kelly. Sorry I can’t contain my happiness any longer. I needed to show your handsome cock. Please don’t be mad”

Mad?  Hahaha, little does she know how much of myself I’ve shown on the internet over the past several years :-) I told her that I wasn’t mad and didn’t mind her sharing with Kelly. I knew of Kelly, she’s Katie’s coworker and running partner, she knew about Katie’s Ashley Madison adventure before she and I ever met and Kelly has been a trusted confidant for her.

“I showed her the one in the shower too. You saw the pic of her”

It’s true, I’ve seen pictures of Kelly, she’s a very attractive (and single!) woman. Now if only I could entice her into sharing some naked pictures of herself. Katie says she’s got a great figure and looks fantastic in a bikini.

Would it surprise anyone to know that I’ve had thoughts of Veronica-Hubman-Katie-Kelly group fun?

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