Who knew they like to watch? 
Saturday, 10:45 pm
Sinful Sunday, where it’s all about the image
And this week, where the competition is all about perverting Easter
Apr 082012
Mar 042012
Inspired by a question in this past weeks TMI Tuesday post, an unpublished photo from the archives, introducing Veronica as Cassandra the porn-producer. If you couldn’t tell, she’s interviewing me 
I wanted to include a click-thru, but the pic of the facial I gave her at the end, well, it shows her face….
Sinful Sunday, where it’s all about the image
Dec 072011
A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous ~ Ingrid Bergman
I’m not sure this is what she had in mind when she said that, but it works for me
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Oct 272011
Veronica is on her hands and knees on the hotel room bed, our friend is by her side and watching me fuck her. Remembering something that our friend once told me, I reach over and grab her head.
Slick with Veronica’s juices, I push my cock into her mouth, then keep pushing until she’s taken all of me. With a firm handful of hair, I keep my cock there for just a moment longer than she’s comfortable with. Releasing her from my grasp, I withdraw and slip back into Veronica’s cunt.
Did Veronica even realize what I was doing while I left there, ass up in the air, cunt so rudely left wanting for something inside?
Back and forth I go
Fucking Veronica
Fucking our friends mouth
Fucking Veronica
Over and over, making sure our friend get to fulfill her fantasy of sucking my cock intermingled with the taste of Veronica.
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3+ years of swinging and numerous 3somes with a variety of women, and yet I’m still experiencing some things for the first time.
I love my life
Aug 032011
She slips out of bed to lock the bedroom door. I hear her removing her shirt and panties then feel her naked figure slip back into bed next to mine. She feels my already-erect cock and moves down my body, taking me into her mouth.
And so begins another day…
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Jan 272011
Not the second, or third, or fourth item on the list, refraining from intercourse for 3 weeks is the first item on the post-procedure care checklist!
Veronica, the eternal optimist, remarked that this will give her plenty of time to work on her oral sex technique
Me, the eternal perv, asked how much anal sex she’s ready for
And of course, there’s no reason why I have to refrain from vaginal sex, just not with her
[Veronica is doing fine after undergoing a LEEP procedure to remove some pre-cancerous cells on her cervix.
She's going to write about it sometime this weekend, so I'll save my comments about the day for her post.]
Jan 032011
A couple of months ago I wrote the following, to accompany a Wanton Wednesday post-
There are many ways that Veronica and I share ourselves with friends and lovers
There is one thing I don’t share with anyone else, she wouldn’t have it any other way
If you looked carefully at the click-thru picture in that post, you might have noticed that Veronica and I were having anal sex. The message is that while we do a lot of things when we’re playing with other partners we, like just about anyone else, have our limits. A day or two after that post John and Ann, who are regular commenters on our lifestyle posts, e-mailed me-
If you and Veronica decide to bring back advice column part of your blog, I think that you could have a very interesting post about making decisions about what couples share with others and what they don’t. The underlying reasons are very interesting.
Well, since we did decide to bring back Swing Shift, what better way to start than with this suggestion?
Once upon a time, I convinced Veronica to try anal sex, she had never tried it with any of her previous partners and well, she was my first partner at all, so obviously I never tried it before either! As much as we’ve both come to enjoy it, as we were discussing limits with others, she told me that anal sex is something that she wants to save for just her and I, no one else gets her ass.
Veronica, care to explain your rationale?
I leave it as your sole domain because I wanted to have something of my body that I do not share with anyone but you because I like the concept of some physical exclusivity amongst the sharing. I do not limit you because if another woman wants to experience anal sex with you, I want you and her to have the freedom to do so. While I am sure many of the men I have had sex with would like to fuck my ass, I do not feel that my not participating in anal sex limits the fun we have together, as they still have my pussy and mouth at their disposal. I also think that you get a little kick out of knowing that there is a part of my body that no man (or woman with a strap on) can ever have.
Isn’t that sweet?
It’s not that simple though. She’s comfortable with my having anal sex with other women, plus she is interested in trying double penetration, which we mention on our swinger website profiles as a fantasy of hers.
In practice, these limits have not presented a problem- while I have had anal sex with several other women, only once was it during a full swap with another couple. If the topic of anal play comes up with another couple, we leave no room for misinterpretation and let them know of our boundaries.
Veronica: However a ‘boundary’ does not have to be limiting; it can also be an opportunity. For example, while I do not mind a little cum landing on my face in the course of Hubman cumming, I do not find the idea of a facial appealing (unless I am at a really nice spa and a mani-pedi is also involved). However in the course of our play with other couples or solo, if a woman asked Hubman to cum on her face, then he is free to do, I wouldn’t mind at all.
Because of the Wanton Wednesday post we’re using anal sex as an example, but it really applies to anything, kissing, fellatio, cunnilingus, soft swap vs full swap, whatever. Establish the limits you and your partner are comfortable with, share those limits with your other playmates as necessary, and have fun!
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Swing Shift started in June of 2009 in response to questions we received from readers interested in swinging and open relationships. When we started swinging we had on-line friends who were our mentors, helping us navigate the open waters. These posts are our way of paying it forward and sharing our lessons learned. If you have a topic suggestion or question for a future Swing Shift, contact me at hubman38@gmail.com and indicate if you’d prefer to remain anonymous or not. The full archives can be found here.
Jul 032010
Vixen posted this list the other day, original taken from this article, and I figured that I would see how my experiences compare.
The plain text is from the article, I added the text in italics…
9. The Beach…hot and romantic, no? So popular they even named a drink after it! Lying out in the sand, under the stars while the waves crash behind you…. Also know, if you aren’t extremely careful you are going to discover what it feels like to exfoliate areas of your body that don’t need to be exfoliated.
I’ve actually never had sex on the beach, though I’ve come close. In the summer of 1992 Veronica and I were working together at a sleepaway camp located on Long Island Sound. We made it a habit to escape late at night to one of the little coves up on the bluffs overlooking the sound for some quality alone time.
Oh yeah, this camp was run by a church diocese…
8. A Pool…what could be hotter than dipping your naked body in water? Water is actually, according to some, a shitty lubricant.
I’ve never had sex in a pool either, though Veronica and I have had sex in a hot tub. Sex in the water is over-rated.
7. A Moving Car…back in the 50′s everyone was taking their girl up to ‘make out point’. As time went on, the parked sex changed to sex while driving, because who doesn’t like more thrills?!
No thank you! I’m perfectly happy to have Veronica suck my cock while we’re driving home from a night at a strip club, but actually having sex while driving? That’s going from dangerous to stupid!
Now a parked car, that’s another story. Did you see Veronica’s HNT this week? What do you think I did after I took her pictures?
6. Nightclubs…basically, not the most sanitary of places.
I’ve never done that either. Wait, does fucking a stripper while we’re still in the strip club count? Read the post and you tell me
5. Taxis…ever heard or seen Taxi Cab confessions? That might make you think twice right there.
Even dirtier than a nightclub, I suppose. No thanks
4. Movie Theaters…apparently the downside is depending on what state you live in, it might be a felony.
Not even a handjob or blowjob. I’m feeling really unadventurous so far!
3. The Woods…the smell of sex attracts bears. Hmm….maybe just come prepared with more than that box of condoms.
That summer camp we worked at together? Some nights instead of overlooking the beach we go into the woods, there was this boulder that was perfect height for Veronica to sit on. She’d where a dress, slip off her panties…
I wonder if anyone ever saw me from behind, shorts around my ankles and her legs wrapped around me?
I do remember her not putting her panties on when we were done one time and someone noticing them in her pocket…
2. On a Plane…The Mile High Club is the ultimate fantasy of some. You’re in an exotic (???) place, high above earth, close quarters with nothing to do and in public, sort. Guess again, it’s illegal and you can be arrested for such behavior. And with the bathrooms not being known for their roominess, second to say, a kitchen cupboard….
You know, I’ve never had an interest in joining the Mile High Club.
1. On a Boat…if you don’t get sea sick or worry about capsizing a small boat, might be safe enough for you.
Nope, never have, thought I do like the idea. Maybe we’ll go on a cruise someday. Does that count? That’s more of ship than a boat though.
Well by this list my sex life isn’t too awesome, but I’m pretty damn happy with it!
Speaking of which, we’re going to a swingers party Saturday night, our first one in a few months.
Maybe there will be some tales to tell…
May 192010
She’s not just my fuck toy
We have numerous silly pet names for each other. The other day I spontaneously called her “cum bunny” and her response was “ooooh, I like that!”
That’s my girl!
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