Veronica and I have been very upfront with our involvement in the swinging lifestyle.  Our goal has always been to find a couple, or two, that we could be see on a semi-regular basis for fun and pleasure. We’re not looking to become bed-post notchers, always on the lookout for the next conquest.  Every couple we’ve swapped with was with the hope that the relationship would grow, but it hasn’t always worked out that way.

Until now.  We think…

Red and Sonja are a special couple to us, and apparently we are to them as well.  In the course of exchanging text messages, e-mails and IMs since we had nekkid fun together, we’ve discussed the idea of keeping our relationship ‘off-blog’, as they are the first local couple that we’ve hooked up with who knows Veronica and I as bloggers first.  So unless something really, really extraordinary happens, you won’t be reading much if anything about our time with them anymore.  The bottom line is that our friendship with them is more important to us than writing about what we do in the course of that friendship.  Y’all wondered what would happen when I mentioned that we were getting involved with another blogger couple?  Now you know!

But don’t despair, because we’re still looking for that second couple.

Which leads me to the title of this post…

About a month ago, Veronica and I had dinner with Jen and Tom at a local restaurant.  They are about our age, with similar interests and background, and they are h-o-t hot hot hot!  But it gets even better.  I’m not kidding when I say that we could walk to their house from ours!  Their street is about a mile and a half from ours!

Unfortunately, they both travel extensively for work and we knew at the time of our first date that we would not be able to get together with them for at least a month.  So we kept ourselves open to offers from other couples for first dates.  Apparently, the main picture on our profile, of Veronica’s ass [the main picture in this post], gets a lot of interest.  Any idea why?

For about the last month and a half we have been putting off making a date with another couple.  Not for lack of attraction, because if that was the case we’d politely tell them that we’re not interested, but because of scheduling issues.  Finally, earlier this week we set a date for tonight, to meet at a restaurant and club just over in Rhode Island.

And then on Thursday we got a message from Jen and Tom.  They’re back in the area and would like to see us tonight!

Crap.

[I know, cry you a river, here we are having to decide which hot couple to get together with.  I suppose our problems could be worse!]

So do we keep the first date with the couple we haven’t meet yet?  Or do we break the date in favor of Jen and Tom, whom we’ve already met and know the chemistry is there?

Of course we break the date!  While we told a lie and said that the sitter canceled on us, at least we did it over the phone instead of an e-mail.  After all, we would like to meet them.  Just not tonight…

I think it’s time to edit our profile and let people know that we’re not looking for a couple right now.  Just this morning we got contacted by yet another couple.  I’m not kidding when I say that in the last week, at least 5 couples have contacted us.

It must be Veronica’s fault.  ‘Cause I’m not that hot