Jan 122012
 

Because there’s an interesting discussion that I feel I have something to add to

Because I want to lend some support or encouragement

Because there’s really no good reason at all, but I felt like it anyway

Or even because she looks really good naked and I want to encourage her photo sharing :-)
Don’t tell me that you’re surprised by that!

But you know why I don’t comment? Because of some “blogger etiquette” that compels me to comment on someone’s blog for the sole reason that they commented on mine.

Yesterday I remarked on twitter “Wow based on blog stats & (lack of) comments, you really don’t care when naughtiness is implied instead of explicit for #WantonWednesday”. It wasn’t meant as a gripe about lack of comments, it was meant as more a reflection of what kind of content is likely to generate comments, though I can see how it might be misinterpreted. That’s okay though.

It turns out that my tweet was a conversation starter, leading someone else to make the “blogger etiquette” comment.

Am I guilty of doing that in the past? Yes, no doubt, but it didn’t take me long to realize how the game was played. There were people who sat back waiting for comments, then whoever commented would get the “courtesy” of a comment in return.  There were the equally meaningless “nice photo” comments as well.

I understand, commenting is part of self-advertising. You’ve started a blog and you’d like to develop a readership, so you visit (or have already been visiting) bloggers with similar interests. You hope that people will wonder who you are and visit your blog to find out, and that they’ll like what they see and stick around.

I don’t know about other blogs, but I looked at my stats and in the history of this blog (and it’s wordpress.com predecessor) only about 1% of visitors will leave a comment. “Lurkers” are a fact of blogging life.

Leave a comment if you’d like, or don’t, it’s okay either way.

But if you’re commenting only because you’re expecting me to reciprocate, please don’t.

There are a lot of reason why I may leave a comment, but a sense of obligation isn’t one of them.

Apr 052011
 

Last month, as St Patricks Day was approaching, The Daily Beast published their list of the 50 Healthiest Beers. Besides their place on this list, can anyone tell me what these beers have in common?

I.C. Light
Michelob Ultra
Natural Light
Busch Light
Milwaukee’s Best
Keystone Light
Icehouse

I think these are some of the nastiest, worst excuses for beer ever made! Does any self-respecting beer lover even drink this crap? And what the hell was the writer drinking when he came up with this list. There are 3 beers on the entire list I would drink- Yuengling Light, Guinness (never thought of that as low calorie!) and Redhook IPA. Everything else is nothing more than chilled horse piss, absolutely disgusting.

Now me, if I’m drinking a beer, I’m going to pick something full of flavor and character. There is a lot more to a beer than how many calories it has or how much alcohol it contains. Wachusett Brown Ale, many of the varieties of Sam Adams, Brooklyn Brewery Black Chocolate Stout, Pete’s Wicked Ale, THOSE are beers worth drinking! As Jim Koch, the brewer of Sam Adams, would say “take pride in your beer!”

If you think all beers are the same, click on the picture to view full-sized and check this out. I don’t know how accurate it is, but someone certainly put some time into creating it.

Men to Admire

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Aug 172010
 

I know a man….

30 plus years of service to his country, he completes a command assignment just 9 months prior to his mandatory retirement date.  He could easily file his retirement papers now and start collecting a well-earned pension.  Or maybe he’s not quite ready to go yet, so he’s given a nice cushy desk job until next spring (damn right that happens!).

Does he do either of these?  No.

He volunteers for a deployment to Afghanistan.

Why? Because he’s a health care provider with previous combat experience and feels that as long as he can, he still has an obligation to care for those who put themselves in harms way.

His offer is accepted and he’s going.

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I know a man….

Fourteen months ago, he’s on patrol in Iraq when his vehicle hits an IED.  Both legs are blown off, above the knee, and he’s extremely lucky to be alive today.  He’s still undergoing physical therapy and learning to walk with his prosthetic legs.

He’s already been in the military for over 20 years, goodness knows that he’s earned his retirement, medical or otherwise.

He’s refusing, he’s said that if they try to medically retire him that he’ll fight it.

Why?  Because he’s a professional soldier and believes that he still has an obligation to serve his country.

Lost his legs in combat and still feels that he has an obligation to serve, amazing…

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Want kind of man (or woman) do you admire?  How do they compare to these men?

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