For yesterday’s TMI Tuesday post, I linked to an old HNT post. In that post I referred to another photo that could be found elsewhere. Rather than leave you wondering, I’m going to the archives and sharing that photo today, which originally appeared on The Other HNT over 3 years ago.
Ahhhh, memories… 
(In case you’re wondering, that’s the former blogger Southern Vixen having her way with my wife!)
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Or as she says “more accurately, burn lines!”
It looks like Southern Vixen’s cousin Rhonda missed some spots well she helped Veronica apply sunscreen when they were hanging out by the pool on Friday 
After hanging out together Tuesday evening, Southern Vixen joined me again late Wednesday morning for a few more hours. We hadn’t seen each other since she visited Veronica and I last October as a surprise for Veronica’s birthday, so it was really nice to spend time together again. Really nice
I’m sure that Veronica has come up with something creative for her HNT while I’m away this week, you should check it out! And visit Osbasso to see who else is getting (more or less) half-nekkid this week.
Oh yeah, if memory serves correctly, April 15th is also Osbasso’s and M‘s birthdays, so happy birthday to both of them!
It’s no secret that one of the perks of occasional travel for my job is taking advantage of the opportunity to meet people I know through blogging or Twitter. One of my oldest blog friends is Southern Vixen, Veronica and I became friends with her way back in October 2008 and I first met her in person the following month. As soon as I knew that I was going to be traveling to her area this week, I didn’t hesitate to let her know and I arranged an extra day so that we could spend some time together .
While she couldn’t spend the night with me and had to return home to her family, I will get to see her again on Wednesday, before I pick up my co-workers at the airport and move on with the real reason I’m here.
She looks good even when she’s walking away, doesn’t she?
*click-click for a treat*
Last night Veronica and I had a date, just the two of us. After repeatedly promising our daughter that yes, we will come home [seriously, every time we go out, she thinks we're leaving forever and there are multiple requests for "one more huggie" before we can escape without her having a fit], we went out for dinner and a visit to our favorite strip club.
There was once a time when a visit to the club was so fun and exciting for us, checking out the girls together, watching Veronica flirt and get lap dances. But lately, not so much…
Sure, many of these girls are hot. In fact, I’m the one who got a lap dance last night, not Veronica. But it did nothing for me. I’ve had dances before that even with just a little contact, some grinding on my lap, have left me with an achingly hard cock. Last night, while “Mandy” certainly has a very nice figure, as did a stunningly pretty Filipino girl, I wasn’t aroused at all by the evening.
Maybe it’s because of the adventures we’ve had swinging. After all, once you’ve seen your wife thoroughly enjoy herself between the thighs of another woman, seeing a beautiful nude young woman do nothing except gyrate in front of her isn’t quite as, ehem, stimulating.
The strip club was so unarousing, at least to me, that when Veronica and I got home, we spent a little while online and watching football, then went to bed, without having sex! WTF? Or not…
But at least we started today off right
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You know what most certainly doesn’t bore me? Veronica and her lingerie collection! Last weekend it was her red open cup bra, last night it was the black one.
*taken with my iPhone*
If you follow me on Twitter, you might have seen this picture last night. I also texted it to our friend Southern Vixen, since the last time we went to this particular restaurant and followed it with a visit to the strip club, she was with us. Her response?
“For FUCK’s sake!!!! Dayyum!!!”
Gotta love that woman, her personality comes across even in text messages!
Veronica and I took SoVix out to dinner last night [wait, she grabbed the check, so she took us out to dinner. Anyway...] then we took her to our favorite strip club. Now I’ve been in a strip club with SoVix before, about a year ago in Atlanta, so I should have remembered this, or maybe I didn’t notice then.
The woman is totally afraid to approach the stage and tip a dancer, even the hottest woman there!
This is the woman who will go to a swingers club and be the life of the party, who isn’t shy about having sex with multiple partners [men and women] with an audience watching. Anyone who knows SoVix knows that she is a outgoing, gregarious, extremely friendly person who has an amazing ability to strike up conversation with just about anyone she meets.
Get her in a strip club, she becomes a wallflower.
I went to the stage several times, as did Veronica. Each time, we would ask SoVix if she’d like to join us. “Oh, no no no no no nooooooo” was the typical reply.
We offered that if either Veronica or I saw a girl we wanted to get a dance from that SoVix would be welcome to watch. No dice, she was NOT interested.
Try as we might, we failed to entice her to get up close and personal with a stripper.
But…
Remember when Veronica wrote about taking Stripper 101 in Las Vegas?
SoVix was NOT shy about enjoying a private dance from Veronica.
But I’ll leave that story for SoVix to tell…
Southern Vixen wrote a post today describing our fun yesterday. You should check it out. Today has been very vanilla, with SoVix accompanying Veronica and Princess Persistent first to PP’s dance class then going food shopping. Now Veronica is taking PP to a friends birthday party while SoVix and I consider naps. Oh, the excitement…
Veronica and I are normally very affectionate with our lifestyle friends and it’s a little odd having to hold back a little bit- Darling Boy is getting old enough to figure things out. We’re kinda pushing our luck with having SoVix spend the night in our bed instead of on the futon downstairs as it is. Speaking of her in our bed, last night the ladies are getting ready for bed [after the fun, that is] when Veronica realizes that she has the same booty shorts that SoVix was putting on. So they went to bed in matching underwear. And they insisted that I take a few pictures first. See?
Tonight the kids are staying home with a sitter while the grown-ups go out for dinner, after which we’re taking SoVix to our favorite strip club. The really interesting part? Veronica’s brother’s ex-girlfriend might be joining us! Yes, I realize that requires some explanation. She and Veronica have remained friends since the break-up and they were chatting online earlier this week. It turns out that she is in our area this weekend, so Veronica invited her to join us tonight. Of course, at the time Veronica had no idea that SoVix would be here. We strongly suspect that she’s bi-, so we knew she’d enjoy an evening of guessing are-they-real-or-fake at a strip club and catching up. While I really like the idea of the brother-in-laws ex-gf joining us [what? she's bi AND hot!], as Veronica put it “she used to fuck my brother! Eww…”, so that’s likely not gonna happen. But I can dream, right?
If you follow me on Twitter, you’ve already seen the hot new shoes Veronica will be wearing tonight. Maybe there will be more pictures and stories to share tomorrow
By the time you’re reading this post, I’ve walked into the house, Southern Vixen on my heels.
And Veronica had no idea that she was coming to visit!!!!
Long-time readers will know that we are very good friends with Southern Vixen, regardless of the 800 or so miles between us, but we have not seen her in quite a while. While SoVix and I got together for an overnight visit back in July and we also met for breakfast in early September, those were work trips for me and Veronica missed out on seeing her. They haven’t seen each other since last January.
For months we’ve talked about getting SoVix to come visit us for a long weekend, which she really wanted to do. Sometime in August I hatched the idea of her visiting for Veronica’s birthday weekend and mentioned the idea to her. She was all over the idea, ran it by her husband and soon bought her plane ticket.
All the while, we’ve been lying to Veronica, making excuses as to why SoVix can’t get away- kid obligations, money issues, spouse issues. Meanwhile, I’ve been feigning irritation with SoVix and I’ve been setting things up with lies of my own. Veronica thought I had to work late today, for a very plausible reason. But what I was really doing was driving to the airport to pick up SoVix. Earlier in the week I suggested to Veronica that we get a sitter for Saturday night so that we could have a date night, just me and her. I don’t think Veronica will mind the extra company for dinner and a visit to our favorite strip club!
Drafting this on Friday morning, I’m smiling in anticipation of the look on Veronica’s face when I walk in the door with SoVix. I wonder if I can manage to get some pictures of the moment?
HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!!!!
Since Blogger wouldn’t give her an answer and was essentially holding her blog captive, Southern Vixen decided to make the move to WordPress. Go here to visit her new site and be sure to update your bookmarks, blogrolls and feed-readers!
After what has been a slightly quiet time lifestyle-wise for the last few weeks, this week is quickly shaping up to be VERY busy. Perhaps there will be some tales to tell later this week…
Not too long ago I grumbled about having a lot of post ideas but not being about to write any of them. So this weekend I started drafting posts, leaving them in draft status to fine tune when I’m ready to use them. The problem? I have 10 drafts saved!!!
I just learned that there is a WordPress app for the iPhone! Now I just have to figure out how to use it!
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TMI Tuesday Nighty-Night Edition
How ironic that this weeks questions are courtesy of my wife AND that I’m writing this at 1:30 in the morning, because she and I have been up with a sick kid. I can’t fall back asleep just yet, so hear I am laying in bed while Veronica comforts PP in the living room…
1. Do you have “your” side of the bed? Which side?
Being the sometimes annoyingly precise person that I am, I ask “from what perspective?” Laying here and facing the ceiling I’m on the right side of the bed. But standing at the foot of the bed and looking at it, you would say that I’m on the left side. Yes, I can be a pain in the ass to deal with sometimes…
2. How old is your pillow and what condition is it in?
I don’t know how old it is, but it’s in good shape so I suppose it’s not too old.
3. What is your favorite position to sleep in?
Laying on my side, most of the time. I can also sleep pretty good on my back. I used to being able to sleep pretty well laying on my stomach, but nowadays my lower back won’t let me. I’m gettin’ old…
4. How often do you change your sheets?
Well I change them pretty rarely. But only because Veronica is usually the one who changes them. Probably once a week, maybe a little less often than that.
5. What helps you fall asleep when insomnia strikes?
A long time ago, I learned a trick that takes a little discipline. Lay on your back and find a comfortable and neutral position. Take a few deep breaths and focus on relaxing your body. Start at the tips of your toes and imagine a wave of relaxation working it’s way slooooooooowly up your legs. Once your feet are relaxed, the kind of relaxed where you think you can’t even feel them, do the same with your hands. If you find any thoughts entering into your mind besides thinking about how relaxed and heavy your limbs feel, mentally move back towards your hands and feet then start working towards your bodies center again. Invariably I drift off to sleep before the wave of relaxation reaches the center of my body.
So why haven’t I used this trick tonight? Remember that sick kid? She’s keeping me from relaxing. Oh well, she’ll drift off to sleep soon and then so will Veronica and I…
6. Does sex make you sleepy or energized?
Depends on the time of day. Morning or during the day sex energizes me, night time sex makes me sleepy. But then again, we had some great sex about 2 hrs ago and here I am in the middle of the night writing this post, so there goes that theory. It’ll soon be time for that insomnia trick…
7. What is the minimum amount of sleep that you need to be functional the next day.
For how long? A few days in a row, I can get by with 5-6 hours a night, maybe less. But then after a few days I’ll crash and sleep for 10 hrs. Normally I do pretty well with about 7 hrs of sleep per night.
Happy TMI!!
p.s. Ooops. Running late. Here is Another Suburban Mom to save the day (she is good at that).
p.p.s. You, too, can be a star. I would be more than happy to post your theme/questions! EMAIL me at prince[dot]hapnik[at]gmail[dot]com!
Last weekend I wrote “A New Chapter”, about Veronica and I starting to explore a more open marriage, as I would be spending a night without her, but with Southern Vixen, while I was away on business this past week.
SoVix and I had a wonderful time together. We reunited in the hotel bar over drinks and probably left the other patrons wondering what this married guy wearing a wedding band was doing with the hot blonde chick who shows up and lays a big kiss right on his lips! We enjoyed a wonderful dinner at a local Mexican restaurant [hey, SoVix, you think we'll ever eat somewhere else when we meet? We're 2-for-2 at that place!], wandered around after dinner holding hands and chating, and returned to the hotel room and cuddled on the couch.
Did we get nekkid and do naughty things to each other? Of course we did!
Sorry, but I’m not going to share any details about that.
Suffice it to say that Veronica knows ALL of the details and is perfectly comfortable with what SoVix and I did together. I knew she was going to be okay with it when she cracked a joke Thursday afternoon. SoVix was running a little late and left me wondering what was going on by not calling to let me know. I grumbled a little bit to Veronica, who quipped “She better not mess up my first hot-husbanding experience!”
Who knows where this new openness will lead. We have no intention of either of us going out on dates alone, leaving the other one home to watch the kiddos. But if circumstances and desires allow it in the future, she or I might play separately again. Part of me is turned on by the idea of her hooking up with one of the couples we know for a 3some while I’m away on business…
And that “other” blogger I was going to meet for naughty fun? Unfortunately, that did not work out, as she had to cancel due to personal issues.
But someone else came to my rescue. Maybe I’ll tell you about our meeting tomorrow
Have a good weekend!
[Picture stolen from Callie in Chains]
