Dec 292011
 

It’s with mixed emotions that I see that Osbasso is ending the “official” HNT, today is the last day.  HNT marked my entry into blogging, I actually contributed to The Other HNT before I even had a blog (here I am, July 24, 2008, 6 weeks before the original Hubman’s Hangout, blogspot version, was launched.) My photography hobby is a direct result of my desire to improve the quality of the HNT photos I took of Veronica and myself, for the joy I get out of photography, I’m thankful.

Veronica loved participating, as a late-30s mom of two, she appreciated the supportive encouraging comments and the self-esteem boost that resulted.

My blogging “community” at the start centered around HNT, many fellow HNTers became friends, virtually or in real life. Veronica met Osbasso twice, I met him once, and we’ve both worn the “OsShirt”.  I even ended up sleeping with several fellow HNTers along the way. Shocking, I know ;-)

It’s sad to see the community fall apart. People seemed to take sides, there was Osbasso with HNT and Dangerous Lilly with Wanton Wednesday, which she created as a direct result of some highly judgmental comments Os made about “sex bloggers”. There was a perception that there was a “right” and a “wrong” way to do HNT and a fractured community resulted.

As for the question mark in the title of this post, and this being the end of HNT, just because Osbasso is calling it quits doesn’t mean that HNT is going to disappear. There are people who post or tweet HNT photos who have never heard of him and will continue on, oblivious to “the end”. There are likely others who will continue, even though there won’t be a place to announce “I’m up.” Perhaps Wanton Wednesday and Sinful Sunday will see more people joining in the fun. Who knows…

I’ve already said more than I intended, time for me to bite my tongue.

Happy HNT

R.I.P. HNT

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Aug 042011
 

Before I self-hosted my blog, before my blog was on wordpress.com, before my blog was on blogspot.com, before I even HAD a blog I participated in HNT. I made a guest appearance or 2 on Veronica’s blog and I submitted photos to The Other HNT in the summer of 2008.  Ask nicely and I might even share the link to those posts!  HNT was the center of gravity of the part of the blogosphere that I called home.

Wednesday evenings, the early birds and those across the pond would start publishing their posts. When Osbasso posted his HNT for the week (usually right around 10:30pm mountain time), within minutes there were numerous comments from people announcing “I’m up!”  By the time I visited on Thursday morning, it wouldn’t be uncommon for there to be 50, 60, 70 or even more comments.  My post would have gone up automatically at 12:01am and when I awoke there would be 8-10 comments, by the end of the day 30-40 comments wouldn’t be unusual.

Veronica: I have to admit that HNT is really what made my blog initially and drove the traffic there.  People came for the HNT and stayed around for the recipes and musings.  I also remember waking up to a dozen comments, which was awesome.  I also found it very flattering to hear such positive comments about my body.

Now that Veronica mentions it, for both of us and I’m sure for others, Thursday was the peak blog traffic day. The half-nekkidness is what brought people to our blogs, fortunately they stuck around for the other content we posted.

Just for the hell of it, I went back 2 years, to my Silhouette HNT post, there were 59 comments. Last time I played? 13 comments.  And I know that daily site visits are about the same, but less people are commenting. So far this week on Osbasso’s blog there is a total of 29 comments from people announcing that they are participating.

Veronica: I wonder if some of the HNT people also decided to do Wanton Wednesday instead.

I’m sure Wanton Wednesday has had an effect, thought that’s an even smaller community each week, so I don’t think it’s had too much effect.

This isn’t a post whining about the lack of comments about how hot I am (hahaha) or how good my photography is (hahaha again), it’s about the disappearance of a community.

Veronica: I think where a large portion of our community has been infidelity bloggers and other people who blogged anonymously, and as they have been found out, they disappeared.

I don’t think it’s just the anonymous or infidelity bloggers, I think that as blogs naturally went away for whatever reason, new ones haven’t replaced them. Love him or hate him, one of the things I liked about Southern Sage was that every Friday he had a post that included as many of the bloggers new to HNT that he was aware of, and people knew he did that, so they made sure to point newbies out to him for inclusion. That brought visitors and comments to these blogs and probably encouraged future participation in HNT.

About 2 years ago Veronica was inspired to post an HNT showing her most “flawed” body part, the area of her body that she liked the least. She wrote about the idea a week prior, and to our surprise there were literally dozens of others who joined in the idea. The HNT community seemed to rally around the idea of embracing our flaws and accepting ourselves as we are. Veronica and many others have written about how HNT has helped their self-esteem and body image. I think this is due in large part to the comments people leave week after week, reaffirming that despite however we all look, we’re all beautiful in our own way.

Veronica: I loved that post.  That was one of the ones I was the most proud of, as there were so many people that got involved and shared a really vulnerable part of themselves.  Now? I think HNT is dying. Veronica: I am not going to argue with you.  It seems that participation has dropped off in the past year.  I don’t know if it’s the challenge of taking interesting and creative nekkid pics of yourself each week, or if people have times when they don’t feel good about their bodies and decide to take a break. Once you get out of the habit of posting a weekly HNT it is easy to stay out of the habit.  Then there is the lack of comments.  I also think for people that if you are posting yourself nekkid and not getting the comments, it’s not so fun to put yourself out there week after week.

I’m curious to hear from my readers, especially those long time HNT participants. Am I right? Am I wrong? Am I an idiot? Wait, don’t answer that last one…

Comments are open, let’s hear it!

Feb 102011
 

This will be my last HNT for a while.

Please, hold your applause until I’m done ;-)

In the last 2 years I’ve gained about 20 lbs and frankly, I’m disgusted with myself right now. All of the usual motivators aren’t working, so I need to think outside the box.

My solution is to deny myself something I enjoy, participation in HNT.

I’ve been doing this since before I had a blog actually, I started at The Other HNT in July of 2008, and I haven’t missed a single week of HNT since Sept 4, 2008, which is the day after I started my original blog. Part of HNT for me is the creative challenge, finding new ways to show pieces of myself.  Of course, I’d be lying if I said that the complimentary comments aren’t part of it, because they are, and that’s exactly why I’m choosing this way to motivate myself. If I want those comments, I want to earn them by losing the weight I HAVE to lose.

When will I resume participating in HNT? When the number on the scale is less than 200 lbs, 12.6 lbs from now. Rejoining the HNT crowd will be my way of rewarding myself for reaching not the end, but a milestone on the way to my goal of 190 lbs.

Meanwhile Veronica is continuing with her Alphabet HNT series, today’s is pretty cute, and Osbasso’s place is where you’ll find the rest of the half-nekkid people.

See ya!

Sep 302010
 

The weather was really nice Wednesday evening, especially for this late in September, so I spent some quiet time sitting out on the deck

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Veronica is taking a blogging hiatus this week, but you can see a little of her in my post yesterday, we celebrated 20 yrs since we met.  Osbasso has the list of the rest of the half-nekkid people and of course there’s The Other HNT.

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!!

 

Just think about how much (or how little) skin has been shown in the name of HNT over the course of the last 5 years!

The anniversary theme for this week was a little challenging for me, since my old blogspot hangout is long gone.  Plus, I wondered if I should use my first appearance on The Other HNT instead.  I was submitting pics there almost 2 months before I had my own blog, so technically this picture was my first HNT.  But a little digging thru the XML file from my old blog and I was able to figure out that these pics were from my first HNT, on September 4, 2008-

[Click any picture to see it full-sized in a new window]

Now reproducing these pics was going to pose 2 challenges- I don’t own that bike any more and my new road bike, the one from my HNT Bike Porn Edition post, is in my office at work so that I can get in my rides at lunchtime during the week.  But have no fear, I also own a mountain bike!

Notice the T-shirt, that’s my souvenir from when I participated in the 5 Boro Bike Tour of NYC a few weeks ago.

Veronica‘s HNT is a bit less than half-nekkid and I reproduced the original picture quite faithfully, if I may say so myself!

Don’t forget to visit Osbasso to see all of the other (more or less) half-nekkidness!

Apr 082010
 

Wednesday evening, after the kids were asleep, I went into the yard to just sit back, relax, and enjoy the peace and quiet for a bit.  It was just what I needed after a long and fairly stressful day at work.  While I was out there, I decided to play with some camera settings for my first attempt at photographing the night sky.

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Hey, did you hear? This week marks the 4th anniversary of The Other HNT!  I suspect that there will be a fairly large turnout, possibly including yours truly.  Veronica is also relaxing this week, and Osbasso has the list of all of the half-nekkid people.

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!!

Mar 042010
 

Inspired by yesterday’s Project365 post and a comment from a faithful reader, I couldn’t resist putting on Veronica’s apron.
And nothing else ;-)

Veronica’s in the shower this week and really, what other reason do you need to visit her?  While there is no click-thru today, if you know where to look, you might find me elsewhere.  Osbasso has the list of all of the half-nekkid people and there is The Other HNT if NSFW nekkidness is your thing.

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!

 

This was my view around 4:00 pm Tuesday…

And this was my view around 4:30 on Wednesday…

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A little anecdote about the click-thru picture- You might have noticed my phone on my chest and the earbud wires.  I was multi-tasking and using the infrared remote to take the picture while I was on the phone with Veronica, telling her about my day so far.  Her comment to me?  “I doesn’t bother me at all that you’re away having sex with someone else.  But I’m jealous of the weather you’re enjoying!”

While I wasn’t feeling the Olympic HNT theme this week, Veronica was, and I think I took a pretty nice picture.  I know that she’d appreciate it if you visited her blog!  Osbasso is the man to see for the rest of the half-nekkid people and there is The Other HNT for NSFW nekkidness.

Obviously, I won’t be around much to comment today, but I’ll be back home on Friday and will try to catch up with all of my half-nekkid friends then.

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!!

 

It’s going to be the storm of the year! Batten down the hatches, stock up on milk and bread! Cancel schools! Ohmygodthestormiscoming!!!!!

Hey, Mr Weatherman, you fucked up!

This is my yard around 10am Wednesday morning.  The storm was forecast to hit around midday.  My intention was to repeat this picture every few hours to chronicle the accumulating snow.

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Here’s the yard again, 11 hrs later.  So much for 7-12″, it’s more like 2-3″…

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Veronica is working on her flexibility in preparation for next weeks Winter Olympics HNT theme.  Visit Osbasso to see who else is getting half-nekkid this week and to learn more about the theme.  And as usual there is The Other HNT for a more NSFW brand of nekkidness.

Happy Half-nekkid Thursday!!!

Feb 042010
 

Let me tell you how it will be,
There’s one for you, nineteen for me,
‘Cause I’m the Taxman,
Yeah, I’m the Taxman.
Should five per cent appear too small,
Be thankful I don’t take it all.
‘Cos I’m the Taxman,
Yeah, I’m the Taxman.

The Beatles- Taxman

It’s that time of year when we all sit down and try to reclaim as much as we can from the taxman…

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I’d like to think that Veronica is looking exceptionally hot this week, but I’m biased since I’m her hubby and her photographer!  Check her out for yourself!  Osbasso is the man to see for the rest of the half-nekkid people and don’t forget The Other HNT as well.

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!

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