Back and Forth

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Oct 272011
 

Veronica is on her hands and knees on the hotel room bed, our friend is by her side and watching me fuck her. Remembering something that our friend once told me, I reach over and grab her head.

Slick with Veronica’s juices, I push my cock into her mouth, then keep pushing until she’s taken all of me. With a firm handful of hair, I keep my cock there for just a moment longer than she’s comfortable with. Releasing her from my grasp, I withdraw and slip back into Veronica’s cunt.

Did Veronica even realize what I was doing while I left there, ass up in the air, cunt so rudely left wanting for something inside?

Back and forth I go
Fucking Veronica
Fucking our friends mouth
Fucking Veronica

Over and over, making sure our friend get to fulfill her fantasy of sucking my cock intermingled with the taste of Veronica.

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3+ years of swinging and numerous 3somes with a variety of women, and yet I’m still experiencing some things for the first time.

I love my life :-)

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Boundary Pushing

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Jan 092011
 

Or Veronica experiments with being a unicorn…

Since this story is more about Veronica’s boundaries than mine, she’s taking the lead.

Veronica: We saw a couple on one of our swinging sites, she had a lovely smile and the big squishy variety breasts that I love. We send them an email and begin chatting.  In the course of chatting Sandy mentions that her and her husband had changed their focus.  They were looking more for a woman to join them, than for a couple to swap with.  Normally, Hubman and I would say nice to meet you and call it a day, but we found ourselves intrigued.   The idea of being a unicorn had been offered to me before, and I was mildly curious about it, and Hubman thought that it would be nice for me to have a couple to play with if he had any extended business trips.

Hubman: It’s probably pretty obvious that I’ve had numerous solo adventures since we opened our marriage, but Veronica has not, which was her choice.  Plus, it seemed like John and Sandy weren’t exclusively looking for a single woman, that was just for now and I might get a chance to join in at some point.

Veronica: We agree to meet and Hubman and Sandy start texting and texting leads to naughty picture sharing and soon sexting, which leads Sandy to rethink the no couple stand.

Hubman: I had one condition with Veronica joining another couple without me- I wanted to meet them in person first.  Over dinner or drinks somewhere would have been fine, I just wanted to meet the couple who wanted to fuck my wife while I was home with the kids.

Veronica: Between John and Hubman’s work travel schedule, it was proving challenging to set up a date, so I went over to Sandy’s house for an afternoon visit and hung out with her and her adorable babies.  She is a SAHM and new to the area so she enjoyed having company, and I enjoyed hanging out with her and the kids.   She explained her issue with couple swapping, apparently she and John had swapped with a couple where the man from the couple kept on trying to see Sandy without his wife and Sandy was uncomfortable with that.  However, she felt that Hubman was both ‘freaky yet really sweet and normal’ and was interested in including him.

Hubman: Freaky yet really sweet and normal.  I like the sound of that!

Veronica: The night finally came, after some Auntie Flo induced rescheduling (Hubman: Remember HNT Gag Order? Now you know the story behind that post).  We get to their house after 9:30 when their kids are asleep and are led to their comfy basement.  Soon kissing begins and clothing comes off and as always, my cupless bra is a big hit.  Hubman takes a back seat and watches while Sandy, John and I become a flesh pile on the floor.  I soon have John pumping at me from behind, while Sandy is licking my pussy like its the last one she will get to play with.

Veronica: Eventually, Hubman joins in, but I am still the focus of the evening.  I play with Sandy, I play with John, I play with both of them, Hubman plays with Sandy, but soon, we are all exhausted and sweaty and it is time for us to go home and relieve the sitter.

Hubman: My play with Sandy didn’t include any fucking, just fooling around and her sucking my cock for a bit, I didn’t even get the chance to go down on her.  We all wanted Veronica to remain the focus of the fun.  I have to say, I enjoyed seeing her as the center of attention in a 3some it was pretty hot.  And not just because John had a monster cock that had Veronica vocalizing her enjoyment quite loudly :-)

Veronica: At the end it was a fun evening, but I won’t be unicorning any time soon.  For me a big part of the fun is watching Hubman getting off and I would not be able to have that experience if he was not there.

Another date with Sandy and John but with Hubman more involved?  Who knows…

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Unicorn Tricks

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Jun 132010
 

There was a time in our blogging lives when Veronica and I shared many details about our swinging adventures.  Whether is was a first date, nekkid fun with a couple or an epic misadventure, we didn’t hold back.  Well, we did hold back some, at least when our adventures involved the select few blogger friends we’ve played with.  Anyway, thinking about blog posts while playing distracted me during the actual experience.  I can recall several occasions where I was fucking someone and I found myself thinking “Okay, I need to remember the details so I can write a blog post!”  Not good.  Plus, I honestly don’t feel like I’m that good of an erotica writer and was less and less comfortable trying to find the words to write those posts, so I stopped.

Veronica: I think you write some pretty good erotica baby!

But then an afternoon like we had on Thursday happens and I just need to share!

Long-time readers might recall Our (Sorta) Intro to BDSM post from last December.  We knew that Thursday was going to be different when she arrived and we started chatting.

Veronica: We usually start off our visits with a glass of wine and some conversation.  Our Unicorn works as a college professor and is very intelligent and witty.  We chat about random things and soon the topic of conversation moves to sex and then we move to sex.

Each of the previous times we’ve played with her, she lets us know what her Dom would like to see.  It’s never anything outrageous and to be honest it’s fun to incorporate his wishes into our play.  What can I say, I don’t have any problem coming on a woman’s face while Veronica records it on video for her ;-)

This time, she told us she was going “off-script” if only because she felt like it.  We were just going to enjoy ourselves and fuck.  Which was a good thing, because this time WE had an agenda!  Recently in order to fulfill Veronica’s double penetration fantasy, we bought a strap-on harness and dildo set.  Knowing our friend, we knew she’d be game with the idea of fucking Veronica with it while I fuck Veronica’s ass!

Fast forward to that evening- Veronica had to go back to the office for an evening meeting and I was Mr Mom again.  Chatting on Twitter with SexyTigerX, I realized our time with our friend that day resulted in several “firsts” for Veronica and I.

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Can I say, watching Veronica get fucked, fucked hard, by another woman wearing a strap-on was really hot?  I had already come once, leaving our friend with the big mouthful she (and her Dom) wanted, when the girls started playing with the harness and dildo.  Veronica sucking it like she sucks my cock, then getting tit-fucked some, before our friend bent her over and pushed the rather long dildo deep into her cunt and me ready to go again in no time!

Veronica: I will be writing a review on the harness and strap on soon, but let me say that it was very long.

We did get around to DP’ing Veronica together, but not for long.  Apparently the combination of me and the dildo at the same time was a bit much for her and she asked us to stop.  Oh well, maybe we’ll try again some other time…

Veronica: It was a little much as the dildo was very long and Hubman is long and thick (Hubman: if you say so!).  But perhaps next time I will not have to return to work and I can have a glass of wine to relax me so I can better take everything. I also think that our friend was having fun getting to be the top this time as she is usually a submissive. At the very least she liked spanking my ass while she had me bent over the bed.

By this time, our rather anally-inclined friend was ready to get fucked again and asked for it in her ass.  And there was the next first of the day- not 10 minutes after I pulled out of Veronica’s ass and I’m donning a condom and entering another woman’s ass!  Due to some condom issues, I stopped fucking her ass and replaced my cock with a finger while she and Veronica were kissing and touching each other.  I added a second finger and asked which she preferred, one or two fingers in her ass.  Her reply? “Why don’t you try three?”  Well okay then!  And there was the final first of the day!

Veronica: Watching Hubman stick three fingers in our friend was pretty hot, especially since she enjoyed it so much.

I swear, some days I wonder how the hell I got this lucky!

Veronica: Perhaps in a past life you prevented an airplane full of puppies from crashing into an orphanage run by nuns.

The icing on the cake? Later that night I emailed our friend many of the pictures I took that afternoon and told her “We had a great time with you today, as always!”  Her reply?

OMG me too! I love playing with you two. It’s so fun and unusual to be with  couple who is completely NOT jealous, openly and obviously loves being with each other, gets turned on by having a third join them, and can move between worlds. And even though we FUCK and get kinda wild ‘n kinky (love that too)– feel you could actually be friends with these people! ;-)

I think she likes us ;-)

Veronica: I really like her too.

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Over-rated

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May 042010
 

You ever look forward to something, only to be disappointed in the experience once it finally happens?

I can recall a TMI Tuesday question, once upon a time, about over-rated sex positions.  I wrote about the 69 position and if I remember correctly, so did a number of other bloggers.  Don’t get me wrong, I love to eat pussy and of course I love a good or even a bad blowjob.  But both at the same time? No thanks, I prefer to focus on one or the other.

Add another sex act to the over-rated list.

Double penetration.

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Last summer, while playing with another couple, Veronica had her first and so far only experience with double penetration.  It was late, we were tired, none of us really had any experience with DP, we couldn’t figure out the right position blah blah blah.  Yeah sure I got into Veronica’s ass while she rode the other guy, but I swear I don’t think it lasted more than a minute before we grew a little frustrated and gave up.  Veronica liked it enough to want to try again someday, though we haven’t had the opportunity yet.

Not too long ago, I had the chance to help another couple fulfill their DP fantasy and again, the same issues arose.  Between experimenting with positions, dealing with condoms, both guys trying to find a rhythm AND to stay inside her at the same time, let me tell you, it’s not as easy as they make it look in porn!!

Yeah, I know, that shouldn’t be a surprise- they’re professional fuckers, I’m just an amateur who likes to practice a lot. But still…

It didn’t even bother me, feeling another man’s cock practically touching mine, separated by mere millimeters of flesh.  And while he and I met for the first time earlier that day, she and I had good sexual chemistry since the first time we met several months earlier, so that wasn’t an issue either.

If we get the chance, will I deny Veronica the opportunity to experience a DP again? Of course not.

Will I be seeking out the opportunity? I doubt it.

But you know what I think would be totally hot? If Veronica and I can find a woman with a strap-on to join us! Veronica can ride the fake cock, I can fuck her ass, and there is no concerns about maintaining erections or dealing with condoms.

Ladies, any recommendations for a good strap-on?

Or volunteers? ;-)

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Initiation

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Feb 132010
 

We all walk into the room together, the 3 of us. Veronica and I were meeting our friend Lisa at a mutually convenient motel for a couple of hours of fun and games.  Lisa and I had already played together before, but Veronica and she had not met in person yet.  Lisa was nervous, very nervous.

She had never been with a woman before.  Today was going to be her first time having sex with another woman.

Veronica: I was nervous too.   I am always nervous before meeting with new people as it is.  But I get especially nervous when I am with someone who is having her first girl/girl experience.  I worry that they won’t like it, and in a one-on-one situation it’s not a problem as the two of us can get dressed an do something else, but in a FMF threesome situation, if both girls don’t like to play it limits the options of what you can do and can also lead to someone feeling left out.

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Knowing how nervous she was, I get things started while Veronica quickly used the bathroom.  I pull Lisa next to me on the bed and start kissing her.  Veronica returns from the bathroom and joins us on the bed, with Lisa between us. I notice what Veronica is wearing, or rather, what she isn’t, and laugh a little.

“Honey, where are your pants?” (Lisa and I were still fully dressed)

Well, I figured that they were already down around my ankles in the bathroom, I might as well just take them off now.  It’s not like I planned on leaving them on for long anyway!

That’s my wife, the subtly aggressive disguised as practical one!

I lean across Lisa’s body to kiss my wife, then return to kissing Lisa, while Veronica’s hands are starting to wander across Lisa’s body.  I whisper in Lisa’s ear “Go ahead and kiss her.”  The ladies kiss for the first time, embracing each other.  Soon clothes are flying off and they are both down to nothing but their thongs.  I move out of the way, content to watch the action.  And take pictures of course, lots of pictures!

Veronica:  Lisa has smooth skin and soft lips.  She is tentative at first, but gets more passionate and assertive as we continue to kiss.  She shyly explores my body, as I explore hers, enjoying her large nipples and velvety skin.  We writhe on the bed and intertwine our legs, rubbing up against each other.  I dip my fingers down her thong and am soon stroking her pussy, gently stroking her lips and clit with my fingers.  Her hips rising to meet my hand tells me that she is ready for more, so I push her down on the bed and work my way down with my mouth, kissing her breasts and running my tongue on the undersides of them and work my way down until my mouth is level with her very wet pussy.  I start tonguing her clit and exploring the inside of her pussy with my fingers, I move a little to the left, then to the right and I find her happy place.  While flicking my tongue across her clit I slowly move my fingers over her spot until she explodes in orgasm and I don’t stop until the last wave brushes over her.

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Watching the ladies is too much for me and I want some of what Veronica has been getting, so after she moves aside I slide between Lisa’s legs and quickly bring her to another orgasm with my mouth.  Something tells me that having a man go down on her while a woman is kissing her and playing with her breasts worked for her!

Veronica: After a little bit, Lisa and I start fondling and kissing.  She looks down at my pussy and looks at me quizzically.  I whisper in her ear that she does not have to reciprocate if she does not want to.  She assures me that she wants to but is nervous about pleasing me.  I just smile and tell her that if she does to me what she likes having done to her, I am sure she will be just fine.  She works her way down my body and tentatively tongues my clit.  I moan and she intensifies her efforts.  She is a little all over the place, and since I like a more focused tongue, I grabbed her head and led her where I wanted her to go.  Once she hit my clit I tell her not to stop and soon I am having my first orgasm of the day, courtesy of the lovely Lisa.  Coached a little by Hubman she got me coming to the point where I fall into uncontrollable giggles which means that I am now overstimulated.  However she starts up again, but soon loses focus.  It seems that Hubman was getting too worked up watching Lisa’s ass sticking out and swaying gently with her efforts.  I then hear the distinctive sound of a condom being removed from its wrapping and soon, I hear a gasp as Hubman enters her wet pussy in one stroke.

See that picture above? Now imagine the view from by Lisa’s feet, her legs spread, pussy open, wet and waiting, her face between my wife’s thighs.  I slip a condom on and quickly take Lisa from behind.  After a few minutes I flip her over and her back, push her knees up by her head and slide back inside her pussy.  Grinding deep, I feel myself hitting bottom, driving her over the edge until she has another orgasm.  After several more minutes of fucking while Veronica watches, takes pictures, and occasionally leans in to kiss or touch one of us, I begin feel my own orgasm building.  Withdrawing from Lisa and pulling off the condom, I replace my cock with 3, then 4 fingers in her cunt, stroking myself at the same time.

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Hubman and I had sex on Wednesday morning, but by Wednesday night we were too worn out from our day to have sex that night and went to sleep.  I decided that since Lisa likes a mouthful and faceful of cum, that he would not be able to achieve orgasm until he did it on Lisa’s face on Friday, so we didn’t have sex on Thursday.  Now Hubman always has a nice load for me, but I was truly impressed by the copious amount of cum he shot in her mouth and on her face.  It was truly the cumpocalypse.

Veronica was just waiting for the chance to use that term she made up! lol…

From our first time together I knew that Lisa enjoys swallowing my cum as much as Veronica does, and Lisa also let me know that she enjoys a facial cumshot.  So I happily took the opportunity to miss her mouth and cum on her face.  And in her hair.  And on the sheets.  Oops…

Veronica: It was a lovely experience, especially as it had been weeks since I went down on a woman, which is something I really enjoy and had been missing.  Lisa is a great woman and we got along well and had some nice conversation going on before and after the sex, when we all dozed in the Queen sized bed until it was time for Lisa to leave and head home.

We had a great time with Lisa and sincerely hope that she enjoyed her initiation into the world of girl/girl sex!

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Our (Sorta) Intro to BDSM

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Dec 182009
 

If you read my post on Sunday or follow me on Twitter, you might have known that Veronica and I had a date Thursday afternoon with a “single” woman.  “Single” because we did not know just what her situation was, but based on her being available only during the day, weekdays only, we suspected that she might be a cheating wife.

It turns out that we were wrong.  She’s a submissive who fucks others that her Dom picks for her.

Veronica:  We had seen her profile before but were hesitant to contact her.  We thought we might be a little tame for her and figured that since she was an attractive single woman, she probably had a list of suitors the length of her arm.   Which she does.  Needless to say we were curious about why she contacted us.  Now we know.

As she described it, he browses Swappernet looking for couples that he’d like to see her with, she tells him which couples she likes, and they contact them.  I guess he liked us!

We sat in the living room for a little while, making small talk, getting to know each other a little, and sharing some lifestyle misadventures.  She told us about her Dom and that he has several requests when she’s with someone else- the particulars don’t really matter, but I’ll say that they weren’t anything we were uncomfortable with and to be honest, helping her comply with the Dom’s requirements was fun for us to.  Especially the part where I was requested to say, “Thank you Slut” when I came in her mouth ;-)

Veronica: She was very organized with her list of her Dom’s requirements and a few supplies.  I did ask her if kissing was allowable and thankfully it was.  She also appreciated that we asked.

Heading towards the bedroom, she asks if we have any lube or if she needs to dig in her bag for hers.  With a wink, I ask her “why, you think we’re gonna need it?”, to which she replied “if you plan on fucking my ass we will”.  I assured her that we were all set and that yes, I did plan on fucking her ass…

We moved to the bedroom and no sooner did we get some music going, the ladies are embracing and kissing, hands wandering.  I love watching Veronica with another woman, so I happily stood back and watched as they pulled each others clothes off.

Veronica:  She has a very nice figure and a full, but neat, bush.   It was the first time I had a woman with pubic hair.  It was odd.  I don’t think I am a big fan, but I haven’t made up my mind one way or another

Dee, Hubman and I spent a few hours sucking and fucking.  I let her have the bulk of Hubman’s cock while I licked her clit and shot lots of video. We enjoyed each other’s company and she enjoyed our enthuiasm.  She also asked me if she could give me to her Dom as a present.  I said I would think about it as I do not know what is involved in that.  I am guessing there is more to it then wearing a thong with a big bow on it.

I learned a few things that afternoon.  For one, I really can’t rush getting hard again after coming once.  After I came in her mouth and dutifully said the phrase her Dom wanted to hear, I relaxed on the bed next to the ladies, who continued to play with each other.  I never really got soft, but I didn’t really get hard enough to enter her ass, which is what I really wanted to do.  A new condom on, back in her pussy and fingering her ass, I knew I wasn’t hard enough, so I took a little bit more of a break. Can’t rush some things!

Dee used a phrase that I thought was appropriate for both her and Veronica- they both have well-trained asses.  Once upon a time, before Veronica became my little anal slut, it took several minutes from initial penetration to being able to freely stroke her ass.  But now she’s well-trained, she relaxes and accommodates me fairly quickly.  Dee was exactly the same way :-)

Her Dom, who she thinks might like to join us for a 4some on another occasion, is a very good looking black man and to hear Dee describe him, he’s exceptionally well-endowed.  Which brings me to the last thing I learned- I think I want to see Veronica fuck him.  We’ll see what happens…

Earlier in the day, before she arrived, I asked Veronica “what if the in-person chemistry isn’t there?”  After all, the two of them just had one brief conversation a while ago and all of her face pictures on her profile are slightly obscured.  She was coming over with high expectations all around and it could have gone quite poorly.  Fortunately, my hypothetical question to Veronica was unnecessary and we had a great time with her.

See?

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Swing Shift Volume 17- Threesomes, from 3 Perspectives

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Oct 262009
 

Last week we wrote about Boundaries and Issues, which was suggested to us by Britni in response to a request I posted on Twitter.  Emmy also replied to that request with a suggestion of her own:

Twitter3someTalk about perfect timing, since our friend Southern Vixen was visiting this weekend as a surprise for Veronica’s birthday!  And since Veronica and I have had 3somes with 4 different women over the course of the last year [yes, I'm very lucky, Veronica reminds me daily, you don't need to as well!], we’d like to think we’ve learned a few things about having a “successful” 3some.

With Southern Vixen here and considering the topic, this week’s post will be in 3 parts- my perspective on FMF 3somes, as the male half of a couple, Veronica’s perspective as the female half of the couple, plus Southern Vixen’s perspective as the 3rd person joining the party and as a “unicorn” in the lifestyle.

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The first time we ever had a 3some, I messed up.  The fact that is was a friend was part of the problem, because it’s someone we care about and still consider a good friend to this day.  Because of the nature of our relationship, Veronica felt like she was watching us make love instead of just fucking/having sex.  Notice I said that Veronica was watching us.  Not because she found it hot to watch us, but because our friend and I neglected to include her in the action.  And perhaps partly because our friend was bi-curious, with no experience, Veronica was hesitant to join in and touch her.

We learned two lessons from this first experience- both of us need to make an conscious effort to ensure that we’re both involved/not feeling neglected and we only play with bi- or bi-curious women.

Both of us being involved doesn’t necessarily mean there is intimate contact between all 3 of us simultaneously.  Personally, sometimes I love just sitting back and watching Veronica with another woman.  And sometimes Veronica likes to watch as well.  But even when she’s watching, there are little things I can do or say to keep her involved.  A simple touch of my hand to her face and stroking her cheek, leaning over to kiss her, whispering “I love you” in her ear, I try to do those little things to show that while I’m greatly enjoying fucking our friend, she’s still my one and only love.

The bi- or bi-curious women rule is based on a simple reality- I have no fuckin’ clue how to satisfy 2 women at once!!  I don’t think I could do it.  Either there is always one woman who is left watching or my abilities improve significantly!

Veronica:  I am sure some of you are reading this and thinking “I want to know how to get to the naked threesome fun in the 1st place!”  Since we have no MFM experience, and based on what I see on the lifestyle websites, finding a single man to join in is not a big problem.  Finding a single woman however is difficult.  Add in attractive, reasonably sane and a non-smoker, you really raise the bar.  Let’s just say that these women are called ‘Unicorns’ for a reason.   If you are looking on the lifestyle websites, there are some single women but if they will be contacted by dozens of people a day.  If you see one of them and they intrigue you, then you should send them a very well crafted e-mail.  This is when you really take your time to carefully respond.  If you do get contacted by one of these women then they need to be at the top of your response list and given close and careful attention or you might quickly lose your chance.

Southern Vixen: Yeah.  This part is true.  While I, by no means, find myself being contacted by boat-loads of couples/women/men, I do have a few to fish through.  This is not because I’m so fucking amazing that everyone wants to be with me – it is simply because I’m a single woman in the lifestyle and I’m not a complete hag.  I completely agree that your first introduction to a “unicorn” should be polite, not filthy and most certainly, not littered with “do you like big cocks?”  C’mon.  Are you serious?

Veronica: Once you have the woman there, you have to brace yourself for the fact that your man might pay more attention to the new girl than you, because she is in fact, new and different.  You need to discuss boundaries and such before the get-together. (SouthernVixen: I like to be sensitive to this situation.  I prefer to enjoy the woman first, before involving the man.  99% of the time, grabbing the woman and “getting to know her” is not something I have to force.  I like the things a woman brings to the bedroom.)   If you are bi-curious and inexperienced with women, discuss what you plan to do if you realize in the middle of things that you do not like girl-on-girl sex.  Also try to imagine how you will deal with the scenario of having sex with a woman who ends up not enjoying sex with you.

Usually if Hubman and I are having sex with someone who is not adverse to pictures, each of the members of the threesome may take breaks to get a few pictures of the action.  (Heck, when I’m 90 and in the nursing home, I want some pictures of what my ass looked like back then.)

If this was the other person’s 1st 3some, check up with them in the next day to make sure that they are still good with everything.  Also, make sure you chat with your primary partner afterward to make sure that everything is good between you.  It always helps to remind your primary partner that they are the most important person to you, no matter how hot the sex with the other person was.

Southern Vixen: Threesomes can be, logistically, interesting at times.  But once you get used to the flow (and it will be different from threesome to threesome) taking pictures or sitting back and masturbating work beautifully.  I always keep a hand on one of my lovers, at all times.  This keeps me connected to the couple.  I LOVE to watch the interaction between a couple.  It turns me on and sometimes, that’s what I want to watch.  Sometimes I want to get fucked really hard while I eat the other woman’s pussy.  There is no perfect way to make it work.  You just have to have really good communication (before, during and after your session) and make sure all parties are “on board.”  Having a kick-ass relationship with the couple (or other two people) doesn’t hurt either!

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As always, reader comments and questions are welcome.  Have you been involved in a 3some? Were you the third party or as part of a couple? Did you have good or bad experience, why or why not?  How about MFM 3somes? We have no experience with those and would like to hear your thoughts about what makes a “good” MFM 3some for you, men and women alike.  If you’d prefer to remain anonymous, just e-mail me at hubman38 at gmail dot com.

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Adultery

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Feb 152009
 

Until recently, I’ve always been very judgmental of anyone who cheated on their spouse.

And then I did just that.  Cheated.

To quickly revisit it [bear with me, this isn't just a re-hashing of old stories...], Veronica was my first and only lover for the first 38 1/2 years of my life.  Yes, I was a 20 yr old virgin when we met.  But I was curious, so I did something to satisfy that curiosity.

Remember all the brouhaha last year when the governor of New York, Eliot Spitzer, got busted using an escort?  Being a curious type of guy, and hearing news reports about how prevalent working girls are, I thought “Is it really that easy to find a girl for sex?”  So I pointed my trusted web-browser to Craigslist and starting reading the Erotic Services ads, some of which referenced “highly rated on TER”.  TER turned out to be The Erotic Review, which is basically a searchable database of girls for hire, complete with reviews from past clients, services provided, and the recommended “donation” for the girl.  After browsing ads for a few weeks, I decided, for reasons I still can’t wrap my brain around, to contact a girl.

And then I got caught.  1 encounter, 1 girl, and Veronica busted me.  My dumb ass forgot that she had access to the e-mail account I used to contact the girl.  [Stop rolling your eyes, Riff Dog!]

As we recounted here, this whole incident led to a lot of honest, frank discussions between us.

Veronica had long been interested in being with a woman, and of course a 3some is every man’s fantasy, right?  So I was fully supportive of her desire to explore this side of her sexuality.

Ironically, as she was contacting and being contacted by ladies on Craigslist and AFF, one of the things I was against was getting involved with a married woman.  It would be one thing for her to play with a woman who like Veronica had her husbands blessing to do so.  But, I argued, I hurt her, terribly so, when I cheated on her.  So we should not put another woman in the position where she is cheating on her husband, right?

It was around this time that Veronica really got involved with her blog and reading other blogs.  And I got into it as well, commenting here and there and really enjoying all that the blogosphere has to offer.  Ironically, we found ourselves reading a number of “infidelity” blogs.  Then Veronica and I had the chance to meet our very first blogger friend last summer.  I wish I could tell you more about her, but she is very protective of her identity.  We never wrote about her, or she us, so don’t even ask us to disclose who she is.  But I will say that she was and still is an infidelity blogger, and ridiculously good looking.  You’re damn right I harbored fantasies about her.  And still do *wink*

In the course of one of our discussions about the marital status of a woman who *might* choose to join us in bed, Veronica asked “What if so-and-so invites us to her room when we meet her?  Would you want to have sex with her?”

[Not that this was likely at all, she just posed it to me as a hypothetical question...]

Of course! was my immediate, unwavering reply.  Even after Veronica pointed out my contradictory feelings, I did not change my mind.

Ah yes, Hubman the hypocrite.  It’s only going to get better folks…

You see, I no longer care about the marital status of any woman that might join Veronica and I in the bedroom.  Why the change of heart?  It was a long, drawn out process, entailing many more discussions with Veronica about the moral considerations of my possibly fucking another man’s wife without his knowledge.

OK, not really…

The bottom line for us is “Hey, she’s gonna cheat anyway, it might as well be with us!!”

Shallow, I know.

And I don’t care.

Sarah, beautiful, curvy, statuesque, busty, sexy, exciting Sarah, is married.  Not only that, but shortly after Veronica and Sarah had their first nekkid fun together, we all went out together, socially.  Veronica and I met Sarah and her husband for drinks and fun at an area strip club.  And we all had a good time.  I like her husband, he’s a nice guy.

But you know what?  I still don’t care.  She’s going to cheat on him anyway and there is a built-in alibi of sorts because he thinks she is just with Veronica.  So the 3 of us are having fun together.

And then there is Southern Vixen.  Go check out her blog if you don’t already know her story.

Again, the same thing.  She is going to do her own thing anyway, Veronica and I had already developed a wonderful friendship with her and there was mutual desire among the three of us.  So why the hell not?

But we do have standards, believe it or not…

What both of these women have in common are sexually unsatisfying or sexless marriages.  We wouldn’t be comfortable playing with a married woman who has a good sex life at home.  If that was the case, what is she doing looking for others?  [Remember, I'm talking about cheating, not hotwifing, that's different]

I would never play with Sarah in her own house, especially in the bed she shares with her husband.  That is just plain wrong to me and I won’t do that.

What about an “open marriage” or “hotwifing”?  While I realize that is something that works well for others, and I enjoy reading others adventures [Yes, Surburban HotWife, I'm talking about you!], it’s something I just don’t understand. I’m going to stay home and take care of the kids while Veronica goes out on a date?  Or the other way around?  Hah, not likely! Playing with other partners is something that we do together.

But, here comes Hubman the hypocrite again…

In early December I was traveling for work and visited SwingerWife, since I was in her area all week.  While she and I did not play that night, Veronica had given me the freedom to do so, and SwingerWife knew that.  And if my work ever takes me to Southern Vixen’s area again [which is a distinct possibility] I hope that Veronica again gives me that freedom.

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Ok, dear readers, don’t be shy.

Do you understand our feelings on the matter?

Or do you think we’re amoral sluts and karma is gonna bite us on the ass something fierce someday?

[Bracing myself for the inevitable comments...]

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Anticipation

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Feb 082009
 

This morning I had to go to work for several hours.  Nothing like having to get up at 5:00am on a Sunday…

Veronica told me that she was taking the kids to run some errands, so they would not be home when I returned and I could enjoy a few hours of peace and quiet.

So here I am, blogging… Because I find myself thinking about 2 different women, A LOT.

First, there is Irma.  We’ve seen her twice- once without her husband [who watched us play with his wife on webcam!], but her monthly visitor limited our activities that night.  Not that I’m against that, by the way, just not the very first time with a woman, ya know?.  The next time we met, her husband had performance issues and we stopped playing sooner than either of us wanted.

Have I really described her? Tall, 5’10″ or so, trim figure, blonde, a great smile.  Nice, heavy-in-my-hands, large tits.  A silky smooth pussy.  Nice ass and legs.  I’ve told Veronica I’m really looking forward to seeing her again.  I have another crazy week at work coming up, but we’re going to try to arrange something soon…

And then there is Sarah.

You remember Sarah, don’t you?  “The Local Girl” on our old invite-only blog? Sarah was Veronica’s first ever female lover, back in September.  Fast-forward to the holiday season.  I joined them for lunch one weekday, when Veronica was taking a ‘mental health day’ from work.  There is much discussion, especially about Sarah’s less-than-satisfying (sexually speaking) marriage, and her desire to find physical pleasure elsewhere.  The afternoon ends, wonderfully, with the 3 of us in our bed…

[Sarah's husband knows she is bi, and is cool with her seeing a woman without him. He thinks she is just spending a little time with Veronica.  Does he know I'm there as well?  Nooooo!  And he knows me, and Veronica, because all 4 of us meet at a club one night shortly after Veronica and Sarah's first date.  But I digress...]

We haven’t seen her since that day in December.  Not for lack of desire, for there have been phone calls, text messages, and e-mails.  But real life has kept interfering with our desires.

But not for much longer.

We have a date for later next week.  There has been talk of a demonstration of our sex swing, and she plans on bringing her camera. And she wants to try on the shoes herself, maybe get her own naughty pictures with them.  Last night Veronica and I were sharing fantasies [while she was riding me...] and she told me that she wants to see me tit-fuck Sarah.  Hmm, I like that idea *wink*

I wonder if Sarah knows how much I’ve been thinking about her?  How often I look at the picture on my phone that she sent me on my birthday? How much I hope she isn’t ‘reserved’ [to use her own word choice] the next time we meet?

I’ll be sure to let her know!

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